@Bromfield2 - Just as an aside- I love to read about kids who do obscure things at a high level, without me knowing what it is. I completely understand the need for anonymity. But my mind goes wild filling in the blank on the mystery activity: superhero training? Competitive ceramics? Bowling?
What awesome opportunities are out there that I have no idea about and how did these kids find their uncommon niche? I admire the path less taken.
I realize your kid is probably not in an obscure sport, I have some guesses what it might be, too. Still. The path less travelled and the parental commitment is something to be respected.