<p>OP, Im a KU alum who was just in Lawrence today w/my DS HS Class of 2015…though not for a college tour per se. And, while I have mixed feelings about DS attending KU (which Ill explain), I would absolutely recommend it to an OOS student whos somewhat confident & not highly-introverted. As with any other large university, KU can be overwhelming, so Id strongly suggest a personal visit when school is in-session. Here are my thoughts, in no particular order:</p>
<p>Campus is far from bland. In fact, as we drove around today, I was again struck by the beauty of it all (or most of it, at least). The iconic Fraser hall sits atop Mount Oread and can be seen from miles away in any direction, and the historic buildings on Jayhawk Blvd really deliver on that Traditional College Campus Feel that many students desire. (Yes, there are a few ugly buildings scattered here & there, but the campus is stunning overall.) Plus, Kansas has the beauty of 4 seasons (KU looks best in the fall, IMHO). Even my DS, whos not one to comment on architecture or scenery, kept saying how amazing it all looked. Even in the fairly-dry August Summer days, KU is truly beautiful.</p>
<p>Folks from KS (& the Midwest) are mostly friendly, so your DD would definitely make friends but I personally believe a school as large as KU is better-suited to students who are at least somewhat outgoing. When I attended KU in the Stone Age, I was fairly shy
and overwhelmed by the size of KU + the number of students + the Party aspect
so that definitely affected my college experience. My DS is also on the shy side, so I do worry that he would have a harder time making friends and adjusting to college life there. DH is fairly outgoing and he had a great college experience at KU overall. Small sample here, obviously.</p>
<p>I should add that, while there are many students from across the state who attend KU, there are also students from around the country and all over the world there, so your DD would meet a wide variety of people from diverse backgrounds.</p>
<p>When DH & I attended KU, freshman basically showed up, moved into the dorms, and went to class + (a lot of) parties. If there were orientation sessions or activities, nobody told me. Today, incoming freshman have orientation activities, campus tours, etc. and its a much more welcoming experience overall. (So thats an upside I see for my DS if he decides to attend KU.) And, in general, the school spirit at KU is probably not matched at many other universities. That does help bring all students together & create a common bond. Sports are also huge, espc basketball, as you already know. (Google: Rock Chalk Chant Allen Fieldhouse.)</p>
<p>The Kansas Jayhawk is the only mythical bird among all college mascots. Everybody loves the Jayhawk!</p>
<p>Lawrence is a good college town and more liberal than the rest of the state (granted, not saying much there…). When DH & I attended KU, we didnt feel a strong sense of community support for the university, but that seems to have changed in the past several years, which is positive.</p>
<p>Logistically, your DD would fly in/out of Kansas City International Airport (which is in Missouri, btw). KCI is absolutely one of THE best airports in the country (though the city of KC, MO, is hoping to mess with that big time in the coming years). For now, your DD would have about an hours drive to the airport and could be dropped off at the gate for her flight home with very little hassle, NO walking for miles in the airport, etc. Its doubtful that KC, MO, can screw up the airport before your DD graduates, so consider logistics a big plus. I cant comment on taxis, buses or car services that would get your DD to/from KCI, but maybe someone else can. Baggage claim is also a breeze. For now, KCI rocks.</p>
<p>I cant speak much to housing beyond what parents of current students have told me. There are abundant dorm options, Scholarship halls, off-campus housing within walking distance of the campus, and fraternities/sororities. Greek Life is BIG at KU, so that may be a consideration for your DD, either way. On-campus housing is supported by a reliable bus service, plus one could walk to many/most buildings from on-campus housing. If living off-campus, the student would probably do best with a car, but its not essential. Ive heard that at least one dorm (Templin) is designed to house Honors College students and thats a fairly new development I believe. The Honors College building appears to be across the street from Templin
at least thats what I think we saw today. Other current students/families might want to comment on this, but I think its important to put down a dorm deposit as soon as that window opens. I mean, Day One. Even if you lose your deposit by ultimately selecting another university, its better than not getting the desired dorm. YMMV.</p>
<p>Most importantly Academics. Have heard very good things about the Honors College and how it helps carve out a smaller school environment for students, with certain perks. If DS applies & is accepted to the Honors College, that would probably make KU a much better experience for him. DH graduated from the school of Engineering & I graduated from the school of Journalism both excellent schools then and now. (Dont have much knowledge of the other schools.) DH & I can both thank KU for immediate employment upon graduation and weve always been employed in our fields ever since. Times have changed, of course, but we owe a lot to the initial career opportunities KU afforded us.</p>
<p>Cost I believe tuition is frozen at the rate that the student pays for Year One, but obviously this is something you & your DD need to research. In-state cost is reasonable and Im almost sure there are OOS discounts for high ACT/SAT scores + GPA. For our family, the cost of college is a giant issue, so relatively low cost works in KUs favor. </p>
<p>To my mind, the greatest KU-drawback for our DS is that at least one-third of his current high school class will go to college there
along w/a large percentage of students from our district. Granted, thousands of other students will be on-campus, and he would meet many new people, but its a strong consideration for so many reasons. DS attends one of the largest districts in the state, and none of us want his college experience to be just like another day of high school. He isnt the only student, and we arent the only parents, to feel this way. And this is probably an issue everywhere. Theres something to be said for venturing out a bit. DS is giving a lot of thought to whether or not he’d like to be in the same general orbit he is now.</p>
<p>Its late & Ive had a long day (including a drive back/forth to Lawrence) so Ive probably missed several key points and made lots of type-os. But I can honestly say that KU is well-worth a visit in the decision-making process. Like any other school, there are pros and cons. Best of luck to you & your DD. And Rock Chalk, Jayhawk!</p>