<p>SkyGirl,</p>
<p>That's not a silly question at all!</p>
<p>I've addressed this question, however, on more than one occasion. Rather than restating what has already been said, I've taken the liberty of posting a prior post on the subject here:</p>
<p><<< Yes, Greek life does play an important role in the residential community and in the social life of the college. However, I believe the user lafalum84 sums it up nicely in a recent post when she says that Greek life no longer dominates the social scene (thirty years ago it did!). One definitely does NOT have to belong to a fraternity or sorority to "fit in" or make friends.</p>
<p>I've found that you don't need to be directly involved in Greek life to "socially network", if you will. You might consider joining an athletic team (varsity, club, or intramural), joining multiple student organizations (religious, student governance, performance groups, shared interests, etc.), or even getting a campus job. I am friends with students in my classes and in my majors, with my fellow tour guides, fellow RAs, and those who live in my residence hall.</p>
<p>However, the option of participating in Greek life remains. Take me as an example. Even though I have no intention of joining a fraternity, I still take part in all the campus-wide events sponsored by our fraternities. I also hang out with girls in sororities after meeting them through my various commitments around campus.</p>
<p>I was pleasantly surprised with how positively Greek life contributes to Lafayette's sense of community. All the Greek houses (6 fraternities, 6 sororities) are located on campus, so they can't isolate themselves or "do their own thing." The administration does a great job of holding Greek life accountable for creating safe and inviting atmospheres. All prospective Greek events (with or without alcohol) must first be submitted in writing to the College for approval to ensure they abide by all laws and college regulations. Many of their sponsored events attract a great deal of non-Greek students (barbecues on the Quad, for instance).</p>
<p>Believe it or not, Greek life has a reputation that is largely unearned (at least at Lafayette). While they do hold parties on the weekends, they are safe and provide great opportunities to meet students outside your typical group of friends. If alcohol is available, there is never any pressure to consume. I guess you could say that alcohol can be used as a "social lubricant" for those students who feel awkward in social situations.</p>
<p>The majority of students who "go Greek" initially have no intention of pledging, but once they begin to make friends with students in the Greek houses, they begin to see the benefits of the system. For more info on Greek Life, you should probably check out the webpage: Fraternity</a> & Sorority Life. It is under construction at the moment, but what does work paints a fairly accurate picture of Greek life and its place in our "residential community." Also keep in mind that you could still participate in most Greek-sponsored events without having to officially be a member.</p>
<p>While I have nothing against Greek housing, I prefer the traditional residence hall environment. Both foster supportive communities, but I just enjoy the diversity of students who choose to live in traditional housing. >>></p>
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<li>Justin</li>
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