<p>If theater programs only WERE recruiting....:D. Like AlwaysAMom says, they don't. Spots are filled via audition. If it is any comfort, my D (and most of us can say this) was a complete unknown at all of her BFA auditions. </p>
<p>About the sports....first, NotMamaRose, yes, CAMP, the movie, was filmed at Stagedoor Manor and was written/directed by an alum of the camp loosely based on HIS experiences of having gone there (but ask any kid who goes, they'll tell you that it did not seem at all like Stagedoor other than the on location set). I think that scene about basketball was to make a point. They have tennis courts, a basketball court and a volleyball area and I don't think they ever get used. Most kids are there for their theater passion and the day is taken up by that. I even think in free time that kids are either socializing or learning lines, etc. </p>
<p>Many kids in the arts are not into sports but many are or are athletic. My daughter who is now in a BFA program in MT.....she grew up doing sports a lot. She did soccer for 8 years, ski racing for 8 years, figure skating for 9 years, horseback riding for 4 years, and a little bit of gymnastics and Little League when much younger. All the while, she also was in dance and theater and music (instrumental and choral). But what happened was that her passion in musical theater and the commitments that started to take over, turned into lots of schedule conflicts with soccer team and ski training program, and figure skating, that eventually mid way through middle school, she gave those up to just do more and more of what she was doing in performing arts only. She did not give up instruments or jazz band though but those relate. She hasn't done sports in a while now. </p>
<p>My older D grew up just like the younger (BFA in MT) one...instruments, band/chorus/jazz band, dance, musical theater but also sports every year (soccer, ski racing, softball, eventually tennis, horseback riding and figure skating). THAT daughter never wanted to give up her sports or her performing arts and so she kept one half of herself in sports (three varsity sports in HS) and one side in performing arts (two instruments, band, jazz band, various dance classes, theater was just in summer due to schedule conficts w/ ski team). She is the "well rounded" type. </p>
<p>But to truly go on in one of these fields, be it a sport or a performing art, at some point, you do have to specialize and throw your all into that one thing. For my well rounded kid, these things are extracurricular pursuits and passions but for my theater kid, this is HER LIFE and her college Major and hopefully CAREER. So, it made sense for her to start to put lots of eggs in one basket and focus on training in this one area (which has several related parts to it, so it is not really just one thing....be it music, instruments, dance, acting, theater work). My other daughter cannot achieve TOPS in her activities on a big scale (nationally etc) unless she had focused on one sport year round and she would never do that as she would not give up her other sports or her arts activities but that was right for her. She achieved in each area, often on a local, regional or state level. Her biggest passion is ski racing and while she would never be competitive with those who only did that and attended ski academies for high school, which she opted NOT to do, she still is on the Div. 1 varsity team at Brown and got to go to collegiate Nationals last year where her team came in second and it was quite the thrill. But she can never be at the top, which is fine by her and us, as she does more than ONE thing. Right now, in college, she is no longer doing all of her "loves" because the commitment JUST to the varsity team is DAILY. So for now, the one love that has the most eggs in her basket is ski racing! We can only tell one child to break a leg, however :D. </p>
<p>So count me in as a sports AND arts mom. Last year, every weekend I was at either a college theater audition or on a mountain watching a college ski race. But I have spent countless hours at games and matches in several sports and so rather miss it now. </p>
<p>Susan
aka soccer mom, tennis mom, band mom, ski racing mom, figure skating mom, theater mom, dance mom, etc.</p>