<p>Have any of you read "The Price of Admission" by Daniel Golden? He discusses all the various advantages some applicants have, including legacies. If I understood him correctly, IN GENERAL, legacy at top colleges only matters if you are able to donate or have donated gobs of money. Prep schools, especially, can tell potential colleges how much money Johnnie's parents have already given to them (hint hint at what you will get if you admit Johnnnie), etc. They honestly don't need to keep other legacies happy, their donation-potential is low.</p>
<p>Mr. Golden also mentions that whatever you do, don't be a legacy that needs financial aid! The college thinks, "YOU didn't do enough with your education. We won't make the same mistake twice!" I can't remember if he has evidence to back up that assertion.</p>
<p>My alma mater openly says the advantage they give legacies is one extra read by the dean of admissions, if their first impression was a denial. The dean has to be convinced that the student honestly cannot do the work. We'll see. If my daughter gets admitted to my alma mater and "everyone" wants to assume it's because of "legacy" and those piddly $25 donations I have given each year, so be it! I'll know better. If the truth were told, she is infinitely more qualified than I ever was! </p>
<p>We're more in the place mentioned by an earlier post: What? She didn't get into XYZ where you went? There must be something REALLY wrong with her! </p>
<p>It's odd, but most people in our small community have learned over the years where everyone went to college. At the time, years ago, it seemed quite innocent. Kind of like, "How did you two meet?" or simply noticing someone wearing a college sweatshirt and that started a conversation. </p>
<p>True confessions: we have a neighbor who has a really nice daughter, but she is not the sharpest knife in the drawer, and to us that matters much less than the fact that she is such a sweetheart. However, when we heard she was accepted at Stanford, her father's alma mater, my husband and I looked at each other and both said, "Legacy!" This was NOT in front of the girl's parents, however!</p>