<p>Things that were helpful IMHO</p>
<p>1) read a lot on CC. Search threads for old info on acceptances and schools. Spend time getting all info you can from school websites - we began doing this 1 year before applying.</p>
<p>2) Help your family think about creating a “package”, not in a fake sense, but focusing on what your applicant has to uniquely offer a school. Develop that theme in activities, essays, short answers, so the AO remembers your child in a sound bite - I was told we were easy to remember as "math/science girl from the Midwest’. Play down gazzilions of activities and try to highlight the ones that fit with the theme. </p>
<p>3) Interview first at a less important school to get the practice.</p>
<p>4) Really study for the SSAT. Try to take an hour a day over a year to make and study vocab cards and get some books and get familiar with analogies and practice math questions. Do not automatically send SSAT scores to schools - wait till you see them first. Test early enough that retesting in December will be an option if needed.</p>
<p>5) Dress nicely for interviews. Send hand written thank you notes referring to a particularly enjoyable topic you discussed during the interview.</p>
<p>6) Have some good books/literature ready to discuss during interviews. Be ready to talk about challenges faced in and out of school. Be able to talk about why you are a good fit for the school (specifically). Know what each school has to offer you and talk about it in the interview. Be ready to give a coherent 2 minute highlight about why you are the kind of applicant they want. </p>
<p>7) Be interested in the sports the school offers. </p>
<p>8) ask recommenders early (October) for recs, give them a brief “resume” of your activities they can refer to. Remind them nicely frequently, then check that things are received, at least one of our recommendations got lost and had to be resubmitted. Think way ahead about who the “optional” recommendations will be from, a coach, club, extracurricular.</p>
<p>9) Help your child find some passion early, give them opportunities to get involved in that, both inside and outside of school. Activities that have been developed over 3-4 years show dedication and effort. Discuss this as early as possible. </p>
<p>10) read - a lot</p>
<p>11) try to visit the schools</p>
<p>12) get organized - files for each school, each recommender, dates highlighted. It is a lot of detail to organize. Get everything in a few weeks ahead of the deadlines. </p>
<p>13) get first draft of essays done in early November, to give your teachers a chance to read them, and work on revisions - and more revisions. Parents - do not even think of writing the essays, it will be obvious to the schools. Parents can help check spelling.</p>
<p>14) The schools blur after you visit several. Take notes and pictures of school life right after your visit. </p>
<p>15) Check calendars for school events in your area (admissions officers visits)</p>
<p>Good luck, have fun, no need to spend a fortune on a consultant.</p>