I think you have a chance at your reaches; they are not out-of-reach. The thing is, there’s no way to know if you’ll get them. If Princeton is your top choice and the NPC is affordable for your family, then REA there.
Run the NPC at all the schools on your list to make sure that the other very expensive universities will provide sufficient aid to be affordable for your family, including law school. Although there are some law school scholarships for alumni from the Peace Corps and such, my sense is that only a small percentage of eligible applicants actually get full tuition ones. Thus, your family should be estimating big bucks for law school when doing their analysis.
You may also be eligible for some very generous scholarships that have lots of additional perks; @DramaMama2021 mentioned the Johnson full-ride at Washington & Lee which is given to about 10% of the students, I believe. There is also a scholarship for Jewish students that @tsbna44 surely knows the name of.
But then there’s a school like McDaniel, that I mentioned earlier. Their regular merit packages are up to $30k, but they also have the Dorsey Scholars (linked to scholarship) that get a full ride plus some other monetary perks (books, $2k for tech, study abroad). Some of the non-monetary perks include the fact that, “They work closely with the President of the college, welcoming prestigious guests to campus and sharing their McDaniel experience.”
The honors program (linked to program), to which I suspect you’d be invited, has typical perks but also, “From the statehouse in Annapolis to embassy row, think tanks, and cultural centers in nearby Washington, D.C., students rub shoulders and exchange ideas with policy makers and performing artists through annual Honors Program trips thanks to the connections created by networked professors. In addition, the program hosts an annual honors lecture bringing renowned researchers to our campus.”
There’s an Arabic House on campus if you want to immerse yourself while in Maryland, plus a semester in D.C. option, too.
https://www.mcdaniel.edu/academics/world-languages-literatures-cultures/arabic-middle-eastern-studies
https://www.mcdaniel.edu/academics/political-science/political-science-international-studies
There’s no need to apply to McDaniel. I just wanted to go a bit more in-depth so you can see that there are some amazing options at schools that don’t necessarily have the Top X cachet. Frankly, I’d be stunned if you didn’t make it to the honors program here, and not surprised at all if you became a Dorsey Scholar. Would having that type of experience be worth an application?