<p>Sooo... I have this amazing boyfriend. He's great, we just officially started dating Sunday (although we've been going out together for a few weeks) - and as a Junior, he's my first boyfriend. Ever.</p>
<p>That's all fine and well. But now it seems I get hit on every time I go outside. It's never ever been like this before, it's crazy! Does anybody else find that suddenly happening to them when they are no longer single?</p>
<p>Weird XD</p>
<p>Assuming you didn’t omit any, that’s probably a 4–maybe a 5 if the curve is liberal this year.</p>
<p>^ ha?</p>
<p>That doesn’t usually happen with me. For some reason, guys get really uncomfortable around me so I tend to be the one that pursues a relationship. Once they know I’m interested it’s a different situation though.</p>
<p>that’s why i don’t date anymore…the paranoia can get to you</p>
<p>I don’t see the point of dating in highschool. I mean, I’m just a kid, what do I need a romantic partner for yet? There’s time for that when I grow up / become an adult / whatev.</p>
<p>There’s a facebook group for this. </p>
<p>I don’t know if silverturtle is poking fun at your title or just accidentally lost lol.</p>
<p>I don’t understand the concept of dating. What does it mean when two people are “in a relationship”?</p>
<p>^It means they’re FB official.</p>
<p>Actually, generally, it means they are mutually exclusive and plan to remain so for sometime.</p>
<p>I feel like I could never date. I’m uber possessive.</p>
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<p>The former. :)</p>
<p>It’s silverturtle… Come on now, he can’t be lost. CC reformats itself to accommodate him ;)</p>
<p>But back to the topic… I (a guy) found it a lot easier to talk to some girl friends of mine once they were in relationships. Ironic, kind of a shame too, but I don’t care too much, the more close friends the better. Our ideas of “hitting on” and “easier to talk to” are probably the same thing. Don’t get nervous about it, very few if any people every want to destroy relationships.</p>
<p>I don’t know, there’s only two males in this world that have ever hit on me (or at least, that I’ve realized. Maybe I’m too dense to know…? Haha.)</p>
<p>One, of course, is my boyfriend 
Although, he didn’t really hit on me, more like, asked me to a dance, then asked me to be his girlfriend.</p>
<p>Two, was a guy who wanted some piece of cake I was holding to give to another teacher. He said “I want it! I’ll take you to dinner if you give it to me!” And he said that right in front of my boyfriend. Weirdo.</p>
<p>^Everyone always tells me that they never get hit on. I’m so jealous. I get hit on/obviously leered at half the times I go out and have since I was 12. By guys from like 12 to 60. I remember when a friend went to the library with me when I was 13. We were reading books about soil in the braille room and two guys, who looked at least 18, came in from the street (like honestly, the blind people’s room in the library is where you try to get numbers?). She was so freaked and shocked that I knew how to handle it. I was just like “you’re telling me this doesn’t happen to you all the time?” She’s so much hotter than I am. She practically exudes sex.
I know it’s certainly not because I’m cuter than other girls, so I have to assume I look easy or something :(. I expect it at dances because I dance sorta… provocatively (but so does everyone else. Harumph) but I don’t know why I don’t seem to come off as the consummate prude that I am.</p>
<p>I am with Bobtheboy. Who has the time to date? Maybe senior year? Also, high schoolers are way too immature and so am I. There is no need to stir up my emotions and hormones.</p>
<p>Usually guys who are just acquaintances (aka ‘strangers’) hit on me. Once they get to know me, they back off. Probably because of my unsubtle signals which tell them to just **** off haha. :D</p>
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<p>I think girls that aren’t all that/not very pretty come off as looking easy…hence, they get hit on more…because guys are gonna think they have a lower chance of getting rejected by her. Just my $0.02.</p>
<p>^probably :)</p>
<p>They say that they hit on me since I’m different from other girls. Don’t know what that means.</p>
<p>is he a guy from CC? CC relationships are so cute. :D</p>
<p>Whom are you referring to, Ilikeyou?</p>
<p>“I think girls that aren’t all that/not very pretty come off as looking easy…hence, they get hit on more”</p>
<p>Clearly that’s not the case with me. =P</p>
<p>I do like the little high school things (that last more than a few days/weeks) though because I mean, hey, you have to start somewhere. It’s better to get used to it while you’re younger than be out in the real world with no experience at all, I think. High school’s supposed to prepare you for life, isn’t it?</p>
<p>That said, I’m graduating in less than a month (what?!) and have never been in any type of relationship like this whatsoever. =/</p>