<p>SanaSerif-</p>
<p>My middle daughter was sandwiched between 2 brothers. Two huge athletic and brainy brothers. All 1 year apart. She was in sibling rivarly hell since her little brother was born!</p>
<p>She worked diligently at all her academics but never took an AP course, all honors. She worked hard at whatever sport she tried, never missed a practice, was not always the best BUT she ALWAYS showed up. Her younger brother ended up graduating with 17 APs and class val. Her older brother had similar stats. You would think she would have just given up, she has a reading disability that slowed down her processing speed.</p>
<p>But to me she was a star. She could run circles around her brothers. She was/is street smart, quick to observe, adapt and improvise. Seeing her strengths not through an academic focus but as a person made me realize her talents would take her far.</p>
<p>She changed from one sport to another at the beginning of high school. She did not excel at first, she just showed up every day and worked hard, setting aside more time to improve what she COULD improve upon. Her diligence was rewarded with not just imrpovement skill-wise but with her being elected captain. She knew what it was like to struggle and could relate to everyone on the team, not just the superstars.</p>
<p>She took that confidence and translated into other areas. Some people are just born leaders and others get there quietly, slowly but they do get there. That’s where the growth comes in, and that occurs when they put themselves outside their comfort zone.</p>
<p>Encourage your daughter to try new subjects, even ones she thinks she might suck at. Seriously. Same daughter with reading disability had finished her 2 years of Spanish, working hard but struggling. Switched to Latin and LOVED it.</p>
<p>Fast forward to college…she gets offered a D1 scholarship for athletics but turns it down for the academic merit scholarship offered instead (same school), majors in classics, minors in Latin and graduated magna cum laude with an honors thesis completion. Her SAT scores were substantially lower than her brothers’ and yet she graduated with a HIGHER college GPA.</p>
<p>She found a university where she thrived and took adavantage of all they had to offer. She did clinical research at their med school, she took flamenco dance, Navajo, attended tribal dances, switched sports AGAIN and went to nationals. She tried new things and continued to grow.</p>
<p>Squished between her 2 brothers and much farther down rank-wise than them in high school was hard for her but with my constant cheer leading and belief there was/is so much more to her than stats…she did in fact become that shining star.</p>
<p>Good luck to her and my very best wishes.</p>
<p>Kat</p>