Pick a school that is strong in your major. A larger school will give you a great range of students to choose your group from. I guarantee that at any school you can find a good circle of friends that feel as you do. Some honors programs would give you housing - not that honors students don’t party but sometimes more likely the students are focused on academics. Unless a lot is going on in your particular hall you won’t encounter much partying/drug use during classes, in the library, at religious organization functions, during club meetings, while working with professors, etc. Don’t choose a school based on what goes on at night and during weekends.