<p>I'm in some desperate need of advice for this one..
So, my best friend (and ex-girlfriend), freshman at Brown, started smoking pot this semester. I didn't think much of it first, since she needed fun of some sort, especially since we were away, and it was kinda depressing. I myself will be a freshman at Brown next year, so I thought I could take of her, if something goes bad with the habit.
And then I helplessly start watching her completely change because of this. She starts saying how much happier she is now, that all her past life was miserable..next thing she doesn't love me anymore, and breaks up with me, and in a horrible manner (i won't even give the details), and hooks up with the dude who has been giving her the drugs. We had been together for a year, madly in love and happy, even if we were so apart for 5-6 months, and all of a sudden she leaves me.
While I guess I am happy for her in a way, since she is happier and all, I can't stop thinking it's just because of the drugs..
Anyway, now she started the salvia thingy, which is a pretty powerful drug. Next, she says she might start doing lsd. This is just too much for her, and it's going too fast...considering that a few months beforehand she said she'd never touch a cigar in her life. So i told her to stop, before getting to even worse drugs, but she didn't really listen...and now we don't even speak anymore..when for the last 2 years I had been her only real friend
I know her well, and I'm afraid that she'll soon end up pretty badly. Her grades are already slipping. All she thinks about all week long is getting stoned in the weekend..with that junky dude, who is heavily into drugs.</p>
<p>I just can't watch her do this to herself..she's a very sensitive girl, and I'm really afraid of what might happen to her..physically or otherwise</p>
<p>I really hate that guy for what he's doing to her, I don't think he deserves to be in such a place, or such a great girl, but what can I do? If I find out she started the heavier stuff, I thought of calling her parents and forcing her out of there. But I really don't want to ruin her life there, I just want him gone. I mean, it's his problem what he does to himself, but not to her. I even thought of calling Brown and letting them know, but I'm not sure what may happen, plus I wouldn't want her to get caught doing anything..</p>
<p>Also, I'd like to mention that I'm really not a narrow headed person, I have no issues regarding self indulgence or whatnot, i'm not even a "drugs are bad.the end." kind of person, but this all seems to be going too far..</p>
<p>So any thoughts?</p>