<p>So how easy is it to get rid of an accidental crush from your heart?</p>
<p>How do you guys feel when the emotion arrives after you met "that" girl?</p>
<p>In my experience, it feels negatively hurt, especially when she's hanging around with her friends or another guy.</p>
<p>Positive love is oftenly rare.</p>
<p>I’m attracted to this one guy in my class that I don’t well. It sucks because it’s been six weeks and I haven’t given him my number yet. This term is almost over and I might not see him as often. I want to talk to him but he seemed moody lately.</p>
<p>Only time can get rid of this feeling of a crush. But I don’t want to, I have three more weeks. I don’t want to give up without trying.</p>
<p>I find it slightly easier for a girl to approach a guy than for a guy to approach a girl.</p>
<p>Eh… anyone?</p>
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<p>I feel the complete opposite</p>
<p>The ability of absence to make the heart grow fonder is a falsehood. Use this to your advantage.</p>
<p>Time and separation. Absolute easiest way. Once you guys go to different colleges, you’ll be over it in like a month or two. The worst is if you are trying to get over it yet see them like every day. I’ll tell you that sucks.</p>
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<p>I’d agree. There’s so little expectation for girls. We can just hop out and say whatever we want. And don’t have to feel put upon.</p>
<p>I agree Hopeful. Women have NO idea how much we stress over simply talking to girls we like. Maybe I just suck with chicks though. (Evident from my thread)</p>
<p>crushes are accidental man- attraction is not a choice. If you saw a random girl walking down the street, you wouldn’t be able to tell yourself “wow i am going to have a crush on her” and automatically fall in love with her.</p>
<p>I know what you mean when you talk about her w/ her friends and stuff, but that doesn’t necessarily make it negative; if you want to do something about it get to know her and ask her to chill sometime.</p>
<p>^^…I never knew…guys at my school make it look easy?</p>
<p>Well I’m sure some guys don’t get nervous. I would honestly rather give a speech to the freaking Senate than ask a girl out. Sooo nervracking</p>
<p>Ehh yeah, and the possible fallout consequences of a one-sided crush are pretty damn severe.</p>
<p>Here’s the thing, through this crappy drama that I’ve gone through in the past 6 months of this year, I’ve found it’s much better not to get attached to a person until they’ve accepted a date or something. This way you won’t feel devastated if something bad happens.</p>
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Or don’t look nervous. That’s the important bit</p>