<p>To make a long story short, I was friends with this girl last year and kinda liked her too but I never told her although I gave her a few hints. She had a boyfriend so I didn't take things further. This year, things got a little tipsy (meaning I was drunk) at the senior party, I learnt that the whole senior class knew that I had a crush on her. Me being stupid, I also talked smack to her boyfriend and said a few things I shouldn't have. This behavior was very unlike me. After this incident, I haven't talked to her for like almost a month, although I have seen her a few times in the cafeteria. </p>
<p>My question is that I want to be friends with her again, no boyfriend, girlfriend deal, how should I approach her and tell her I am sorry for all this, and if we can be friends again?</p>
<p>Depends on how close you two were before this incident. If she was one of your best friends, then it's definitely worth an apology. If you were just casual friends, I'd give it up.</p>
<p>how has she felt about it? If she seems resentful at all, I would forget it, at least until she cools off. And if you decide to apologize, make it very real and sincere, but not fake seeming.</p>
<p>Well, she wasn't my best friend, but we were good friends. anyways, I think she has cooled off, I just need gather enough courage to go and talk to her</p>
<p>I dont know man, Ive done the same type of thing... If you get her back as a friend dont mess up again because that will surely kill the friendship, you only get so many chances with girls.</p>