Lying on FAFSA, and admitting to colleges applying to

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<p>Like the others have said, I would stay out of it. She clearly doesn’t care what you have to say and puts no weight into your opinions. Definitely don’t give her any information on how to do this without getting caught. Just let them do it. I will admit that the entire deal seems like a bitter family affair to me and leans a little on the childish side, IMO. I’d wager there are problems that go way back further than this and that this is the last straw for you. You’re an adult - just ignore her! You don’t need people like that. Obviously if the things she does bothers you enough to discuss it on a form, then she’s definitely under your skin in an unhealthy way. Disassociate from them as much as possible.</p>

<p>As for your daughter’s choices - it isn’t <em>anyone’s</em> business where she applies. If she applied to XYZ school and doesn’t get in, aunt will sweep in & most likely let everyone know about it. Instead, when the time comes, you can tell everyone daughter chose ABC school & is thrilled with her choice. Don’t let anyone let your daughter’s potential rejections outshine her acceptances.</p>

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<p>In response to the OP. The 5th paragraph fits my situation and philosophy perfectly. But yet i still need advice so that is why i post more info here anonymously than any other soul other than mine knows (atleast about the college process).
All my cousins compete for prestige and its horrible. They think im someone doesnt care about school and has little motivation. Its also very annoying when every single person on my lax team is trying to guess my ACT score (who as of right now only 5 people know it not including myself or all you folks on here ;))</p>

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<p>That could get her into some serious trouble.</p>

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<p>This probably isn’t the best idea, it shows a lack of integrity which I doubt is valued by colleges.</p>