<p>Is it strange for a guy to make friends with mostly females in college?</p>
<p>Not if you are gay</p>
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Is it strange for a guy to make friends with mostly females in college?
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Not if he is effete or gay.</p>
<p>Nah, it's not strange. It'll be good in the near future.</p>
<p>Are they friends with benefits? That's good.</p>
<p>My friend is like that. I'm one of his only male friends. If you're that kind of person (by that I don't mean gay) go for it, but don't go for it just to look like you're that kind of person.</p>
<p>So what? A lot of my friends are girls too. I don't know of anyone who gets weirded out by the fact that most of a person's friends are of the opposite sex.</p>
<p>It's fine. Most of my friend at college are girls. Like I only have one or two close guy friends, but a good amount of girl friends. ::shrug:: The only people who think it's funny/weird are my girl friends. </p>
<p>Also, I went to an all guys' school for high school, so I have some close guy friends from then.</p>
<p>My best friend is a guy, and most of his friends are girls. He's close to his apartmentmates, and a couple of guys from clubs, but mostly he hangs out with girls. I don't think it's weird. You make friends with who you make friends with, you shouldn't worry about what other people think.</p>
<p>The problem I see developing is that, if the girls you are friends with are all friends with each other, and you try to bang one of them, you're going to lose a whole group of friends instead of just one</p>
<p>It is a little weird...and you're kind of assumed to be gay in many instances unless you're very very confident in your masculinity... That's at least what I've seen.</p>
<p>But, most of my friends here are guys. So, who am I to talk?</p>
<p>A real man should be able to hang with his boys. He should also have lots of female company too, but balance is necessary.</p>
<p>Sometimes that's just the way things work due to the environment you are in.</p>
<p>Nothing wrong w/ it - tho, should have some guys to hang w/ as well.</p>
<p>I see no issue with it. I am a girl who has, for most of my life, been 'one of the guys'. With guy friends it's more casual, someone to just hang with and no drama... with girls there is always something and they can be caddy behind eachother's back, but when I make a good girl-friend we are friends forever.</p>
<p>The different genders bring different dynamics in friendships for the most part, and just because you hang with more one than the other it doesn't make you any different from anyone else.</p>
<p>And to those stupid comments about banging the chick friends; sod off. Seriously, one is as bound to be banging their friend of the opposite gender as you are to be banging your friend of the same gender. Friends are friends - either gender; if it goes beyond friends they are no longer in the 'friends' category so it doesn't really count.</p>
<p>why would you willingly want to be an emotional tampon?</p>
<p>I dunno, I do have some guy friends... However, I just feel its easier for me to get along with females better (they find my jokes funnier)</p>
<p>Citan: "why would you willingly want to be an emotional tampon?"</p>
<p>Normally guys are not the ones a female will tell her emotional issues to. I say normally because I don't know for all instances, and I know there are the few odd ones who either have no other friends or somehow think the male could help with boy-issues. But, no, the emotional issues default to the girl-friends.</p>
<p>Well hey, I'm mostly friends with guys (always been). And the emotional issues (along with everything else) are by no means left out by either side.</p>
<p>hehehe way to go buddy... </p>
<p>"female friends"</p>