Maybe you can help

<p>Here is the story.</p>

<p>Ever since October, I've noticed this girl occasionally looking away from her friends and looking at me. </p>

<p>And ever since I've first saw her, I've had a "crush" on her.</p>

<p>We've had one conversation over facebook because she's never on. I never get to talk to her because she's a Freshman and I'm a senior and she'snot in any of my class and she never leaves her friends.</p>

<p>I really want to talk to her, but i'm the type of guy who can't go up to someone and talk to them.</p>

<p>I'm not even sure if she likes me, but I can't remember the last time I''ve felt this way. (if may be weird because we've never spoken, but i can't remember ^)</p>

<p>Please… anyone?</p>

<p>are you 18?</p>

<p>aw! That’s so cute!</p>

<p>Is it too late to ask her to prom? She would probably say yes.</p>

<p>I’m into high school freshmen too :p</p>

<p>You’re talked to her over facebook… She would recognize you right? It wouldn’t be creepy if you just started talking to her (since you know her… you’re at least acquaintances).</p>

<p>lol if he is 18, its not cute, its child molestation</p>

<p>um, no it is not. Four years is a perfectly acceptable age difference. Especially if they are going to the same school.</p>

<p>^Should just be 3 years… But if he’s 18 and she’s 15, that’s supposed to be “inappropriate” by some stupid rule on wikipedia (that half your age + 7 rule).</p>

<p>I’m 17, 18 in a couple of months, and she’s 15.</p>

<p>I never get to talk to her on FB because she never goes on, only at school while I’m in a class.</p>

<p>She has an AIM, I think, but I don’t want to add her because it’s like I “stalked” her info to get her IM. </p>

<p>I’d ask to her to prom, but there are two freshmen who talk to her often and they probably have asked. Also, I don’t like dancing or dances in general, I’m sorry, it’s just me. Also, if I went, would I have to take her with my seniors friends in whatever vehicle we are riding in or does she go by herself to the dance with her freshman friends?</p>

<p>Also, if I managed to find the courage to talk to her, I wouldn’t know what to say after, “Hi. How are you?” I probably couldn’t keep a conversation going.</p>

<p>I would just say tell her you’re into her, and ask if she wants to hang out sometime. If you’re really shy don’t tell her you’re into her, just ask if she wants to hang out sometime. If you really need to psych yourself up to do this, do that. You have to get over it sometime, might as well practice now.</p>

<p>Don’t worry about keeping a conversation going, just try, and see what happens.</p>

<p>In all truth…the whole age difference thing is a valid concern. Even your Romeo/Juliet laws won’t cover you, bud, if you so choose to be intimate with this girl.
So, think about that.
17 and 15 is a fine age gap, and you would be covered under the law (valid in some states only) for a few months.
Otherwise my advice is to just suck it up and ask her to hang out. My boyfriend is really really really…REALLY shy…but he got it together and asked me on a date. It’s not that bad, and I’ve been on the other side of the coin, too (I’ve asked a guy out on a date before). Yes it’s scary (VERY) but if she says yes it’s pretty much the best feeling in the world. And then you can get to talk and know each other over ice cream or something fun. :)</p>

<p>My advice is to just try to be friends with her and that’s it. You are a senior and she is freshman. Are you going off to college next year? It would not be worth it to have an intimate relationship like that. If no sex is involved, then I don’t see any reason why you can’t be friends with her.</p>

<p>I think the OP should consider the legal implications of such an attempt.</p>

<p>18 yr old boy + 15 yr old girl + “inappropriate behavior” = rape charges + police intervention = Lots of jail time</p>

<p>Do the math.</p>

<p>(PS. There is a reason they call it jail bait… <em>facepalm</em>)</p>

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<p>Do you mean sex as “inappropriate behavior”?</p>

<p>if this girl’s parents are okay with it, there is no problem with the age. In fact, the age isn’t even a problem at all. Now, if he were like, 20 and she were fifteen, that would be different. He’s still 17. Silly kids.</p>

<p>The other posters aren’t telling him that its morally wrong, they are just reminding him that there could be legal ramifications if he gets intimate with the girl.</p>

<p>Well this all sounds dandy…</p>

<p>I’d like to be friends with her, but it would probably only be for a few months. I go away to college, she moves to her new high school further north in the same state. We’ll never see each other again</p>

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<p>I would just let it go. It would be hard to be friends with her. There will always be somebody else. Just don’t fret over it and move on.</p>

<p>^ I agree with what red said. There are plenty more fish in the sea.</p>

<p>If you’re really as awkward as you make yourself seem you might be well off to learn how to socialize with her so you’re better at it in the future.</p>