<p>Zoosermom, do not let this upset you too much. Staying calm will help you in dealing with the school's bureaucracy. Very often, the control of the information is the only "power" GC have, and they do not let go easily. Explaining that your reasons are well founded might sway them. Also stress that this is a PRIVATE matter between you, your daughter, and the school, and that you do not seek making changes for the entire school. Of course, if he continues to be stubborn, you'd have to elevate the matter and take it public ... he may get the hint that are you're not a neurotic, but a well informed parent who wants to see this through the end. </p>
<p>Sorry you have to go to this ordeal. Arguing with GC is never fun.</p>