<p>so lets see my boyfriends right now is 19 and he goes to a community college near our house. well at first he said he was going to follow me where i go and transfer when i graduate (this will be the same year he graduates) but now he is confused. his parents have him working with his dad landscaping and plowing full time so instead of paying him they pay for his college. but now they are trying to get him to stick with an associates degree instead of getting a higher education. but i know he wants to go but he feels obligated to stay at home. how do i tell him i support where he chooses to go without sounding clingy?</p>
<p>Tell him what you just said. “I know this is a big decision for you and I just want to let you know that I will accept it no matter what you decide. So think it over, and let me know. If I were you, I would do _______, but at the end of the day, it’s your call and I want to stand by you in that.”</p>