<p>I apologize for the confusing use of letters to identify people.</p>
<p>Here's what's been happening:</p>
<p>I've been good friends with Girl A for some time, but I never wanted to be anything more than friends. Girl A wanted to be bf/gf though. We "Went out" once but it wasn't really offical.
Well on Wednesday I was walking down the hallway with Girl A and Asian Girl B. All of a sudden Asian Girl B started freaking out and Girl A kicked her.
After class Girl A was mad at Asian Girl B. (Asian Girl B seems somewhat cooler and more fun, imo)
Girl A was telling me how she "might want to ask me to prom" and how Asian Girl B wanted to tell me beforehand. I'm nervous because I don't really want to go to prom with Girl A. I want to ask Girl C to prom, but her boyfriend is Asian Boy D, who's brother is in my grade. Asian Boy D is in college so I'd ask Girl C to go as friends.
Then, Girl E (known for being loud mouthed) came running up to me and was like "Anything Asian Girl B tells you, don't listen." I asked Girl A what was going on but she won't tell me. And I don't want her to ask me to prom b'c I don't want to say yes.
Girl E keeps asking me if I like girl A more than a friend, and I said no and I'm pretty sure that Asian Girl B knows that.
So now Girl E is trying to get involved even though It has absolutely nothing to do with her.
In chemistry class today, Vietnamese girl F was like "ooooo, you and Girl A.. prom, ooooo" so obviously someone is spreading something around.
And Girl A keeps talking about how much she hates Asian Girl B, but I beg to differ because Asian Girl B is basially one of the coolest people in the world (and has a senior boyfriend.)</p>
<p>Today Asian Girl B came up to me and told me she wanted to walk around the hall with me during lunch. We did so and we talked about Girl A and Girl C, and she informed me that I have a 50% chance with Girl C. So I want to ask Girl C ?(hoping Asian boy D won't kill me) and if she says no, resort to attending with Girl A as friends.</p>
<p>But what is Girl A asks before I get the balls to ask Girl C?</p>
<p>Alright: does it matter that some of your “friends” are Asian or whatnot? </p>
<p>Youre making this way too complicated. Maybe you should print it out, give it to your “A, B, C, D, E” friends to read, and let them figure it out for you.</p>
<p>I think if you have a 50% chance with the girl that you like and expect to have fun with, then why not?</p>
<p>Ask Girl C out … the worse that’ll happen is she’ll say no - and in that case, don’t feel bad. It’ll probably be because her boyfriend might not like the idea of her taking a date to Prom even if it’s a friend.</p>
<p>If she does say no then move on and my personal advice is ask another girl (other than Girl A) out to Prom if you can. I’m only saying this as it seems that she does like you as more than a friend and going with her will lead her on. Also if she likes you, she’ll probably want Prom to be romantic and that might make it a little awkward for you if you’re thinking that you only want to be friends with her.</p>
<p>That’s just my two cents though! Follow your gut and I hope you end up having a good time at Prom with whoever you go with.</p>
<p>you answered this yourself in your own post… go ask C. the next opportunity you have, start walking up to her and tell yourself you cannot back down. just do it and have fun-- it sounds like you wont with A.</p>
<p>The problem with going for Girl C is that Girl A would know that Girl C was a preference. I said something about prom tickets back in like august and that led girl A on thinking that I was gonna ask her to prom. I think Girl E already told Girl A that I don’t like her as a friend because when I told her “You better not tell,” she said “we’ll see.”
So then Girl C would see me as some type of azzhole and reconsider whether or not she’d go with me.
And If I go w/ Girl A, Asian Girl B will be mad, and I’ll probably lose her as friend, but I still don’t wanna lose Girl A. So it’s like one or the other+Girl C?</p>
<p>And I’m pretty sure Vietnamese Girl F (who is in the same band class as Asian Girl B, so they probably talked) and Girls G, H, and J are telling people about it because all day people have been asking me if I’m going with Girl A, even whe they have nothing to do with it.</p>
<p>LOL are you all freshmen or something? I can’t remember any sort of drama like this ever going on since, like, middle school. Just ask C and if she says no, well that sucks, but it’s really like the same outcome as if you don’t ask her at all. Worth a shot.</p>