I agree it can be very challenging to find good help.
We had a very hard time finding a good therapist and good psychiatrist for our teen within our health insurance plan network. We had some incredibly disappointing appointments.
Frustration boiling up, I looked outside our health plan network. The therapist and psychiatrist we eventually settled on were both out of network and did not accept insurance. I cannot believe how much we spent that year and a half – but I was feeling desperate for competent help and time was running out (leaving for college).
I do wish we could take better care of all of our citizens.