<p>Thanks shrink. I can relate. My wife and I am somewhat fortunate; We can swing either private or state school for my S. I think he will likely end up at one of his private choices. Cost about 45K to 50K a year; financial aid seems out of the question. Some merit schol. $$ would be nice. He has decent stats, e.g. 1450 / 2230, 4.7(w), etc.. so maybe a few $$ will be forthcoming. If not, that’s life, I guess.</p>