<p>Hello people of CollegeConfidential! Im in a bit of a dilemma here, and I would really love some advice. I posted this on the Wesleyan forum, too, but I figured getting the other side's POV would be beneficial, too.</p>
<p>I was accepted off the waitlist at Wesleyan a few weeks ago. However, because of a complication with the financial aid process, they delayed the matriculation deadline for me until they got everything straightened out for me. I was very much interested in attending, and I had intended to say yes as long as the financial aid was good (I come from a lower-income background, so this is crucial for me), but I still havent heard back from them, so I have not committed yet.</p>
<p>However, a few days ago, I got a call from Middlebury saying I had been accepted off of their waitlist. I checked my financial aid estimate yesterday, and they have been VERY generous with the aid. What worries me is that Middlebury is only giving me until Tuesday to make a decision, and I still havent heard back from the financial aid office at Wesleyan. Though I really love Wesleyan, I dont know if Im willing to take the risk of accepting their offer without knowing exactly how much financial aid Ill get. At this point, I'm strongly considering just taking Middlebury's offer and being done with it, although I was set on attending Wesleyan up until just a few days ago.</p>
<p>I love both colleges, though, and I dont know what to do. From what I hear, the two sound FAIRLY similar, but there are big pros and cons for me for both, I thinkI prefer the proximity, accessibility, and relatively fair weather of Wesleyan (I didnt even have the chance to visit Midd because of the distance), but was really underwhelmed by the campus and setting. My possible major tells me to go with Wesleyan, too, but Im absolutely in LOVE with the facilities at Middlebury. (I am planning on majoring in either chemistry or physics with a possible double major in the arts or social sciences; economics or geography, maybe). I dont really identify with the strong athletic culture of Middlebury, but Im not sure Im ready to handle the radically liberal side of Wesleyan, either.</p>
<p>Alsoand this is importantis accepting a spot off the waitlist a binding decision? As in, if I say yes to either Wes or Midd, will I not be able to change my mind about this later? And do I then have to withdraw from all other waitlists Im still waiting for? (As of today, there are three more I have yet to hear from.)</p>
<p>I know I am very fortunate to be able to make this decision, and I'm very grateful for both offers, but I really am stuck, here. What would you do in my situation?</p>