<p>you waived your right to see your LOR and opened it anyway? dude, you can’t ask your prof or the grad schools if he wrote a paragraph about you. either will put you in a difficult situation ethically that may have real repercussions, depending upon how seriously schools take this violation.</p>
<p>if you know that prof’s letters were going to be your weakest, then don’t worry that much. a lot of grad students have weak third letters and still make it into graduate school.</p>