<p>Hi ellaloo! I do not mind one bit shifting the topic of this thread, it has served its purpose to me and I love sharing my college search experience as it was rather unique I guess.</p>
<p>A few things, first. 1) I’m female. 2) My particular sport is not recruitable and has no possibility of a “hook” type thing.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t have traded my high school path for anything. For me, pursuing academics in high school would have meant going to private school - in 9th grade one of my friends went to Exeter and I strongly considered applying for a while. But looking back, I am thrilled with my choice. Life is long. There is plenty of time to take classes, acquire knowledge, do research. You have a limited time to be young, live with your parents, and physically be able to pursue sports. I simply view it as a 5 year project I undertook. Bear with me here, but I would even describe it as a career, if you will. Now, I am ready to shift my focus, go after a different type of goal, but I feel that my time in the sport has prepared me incredibly well to do so.</p>
<p>One thing I do want to make clear though - my sport is atypical. I had opportunities through it that I don’t believe are possible in the majority of high school activities, and I think that that is one of the main reasons it was attractive to the colleges I applied to. The key is, that no matter what you do, you need to do it in such a way that you can get out of it if it is not a terminal career path. Specifically, you need to be able to present a respectable college application; you need to convince these schools that you are going to succeed. </p>
<p>If you can do that, if you can get in to MIT, I think Mollie is on the ball when she says “being a “good fit” for MIT is more about wanting to do the things necessary to be an outstanding scientist/engineer, not about being one already.” I did not feel at all out of place at CPW. There is a beautiful array of people at MIT, everyone is interesting, and everyone is different. Since everyone is different, no one is an outsider. Which is awesome. I hung out with an ISEF gold medalist, science fair winners, USAMO qualifiers, talented musicians, and so many more people. </p>
<p>I would be surprised if anyone reasonably outgoing had ANY difficulty making friends at MIT. In fact, I felt more comfortable at MIT than I had in high school or even in an athletic setting. In high school I was known as a great student who did this little activity on the side. At sports events people knew my athletic achievements, but weren’t aware that I actually took rigorous classes, had good scores, etc. About half of me “fit” the mold in both places and got along great. But at MIT I can be a good student (who isn’t, it’s MIT!) AND have something awesome on the side. It’s a given. Everyone is incredibly multifaceted, and friendly.</p>
<p>One thing I will mention, probably the only negative thing I experienced, is that there is some subset of people who think that <em>only</em> STEM achievement in high school should be rewarded in MIT admissions. That school of thought is also prevalent in this forum some places. But honestly, it wasn’t a big deal.</p>
<p>Good luck. Let me know if I can clarify anything, or you want more info.</p>
<p>PS I’m mad sleep deprived from CPW still so, fair warning, this may be incoherent.</p>