Mom of bride or groom dress suggestions 2021-2022

The four dresses I ordered came while I was out of town.
The “famous” Alex evening dress- I didn’t love the navy of the one I ordered. I think it’s too dark almost black. One issue I found is that it’s large in the chest and I’m not sure how that can be altered. Overall it’s a very pretty dress but maybe not the dress for me. I like that it isn’t super long. I might try ordering in a different color and maybe a petite if they have it and hope it’s smaller in the chest.
One of the dresses I’m not even taking out of the packing as I can tell I don’t like the color.

https://www.adriannapapell.com/products/sleeveless-high-low-dress-with-ruffle-accents-in-burgundy-glow-ap1e203541
I love the color but again it’s large through the chest. Also the waist drop didn’t hit me right. For someone with a different shaped body it’s a beautiful dress at a good price.

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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07L52S21T/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
This one fit nicely through the top. I like the color. It’s just about 2 feet too long! With the layers I’m not sure how much it would cost to alter. I’m going to look at a few more dresses of the same brand.

My takeaway from the four dresses is I need a dress without a structured bustline. I need some stretch I think.

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@mom60…I don’t know your size, but given what you are seeking, would this work?:
https://www.amazon.com/Halston-Heritage-Womens-Empire-Embellished/dp/B07ZHZ4VM4/ref=sr_1_31?dchild=1&qid=1626462642&refinements=p_89%3AHalston+Heritage&s=apparel&sr=1-31

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Mine was lavender which I don’t think they make any longer. It was a petite size. Honestly, the whole dress needed to be altered so I can’t tell you if the petite is smaller on top. But it was altered to perfection so it can be done.

@mom60:

https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Shopping-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Wedding/dp/B07ZB821J4/ref=sr_1_28_sspa?dchild=1&keywords=Burgundy%2BEvening%2BGown&qid=1626463140&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011&rnid=11006712011&s=apparel&sr=1-28-spons&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExRTE4QU1DREVDWFhNJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMTEyOTc5MTk0OFcxVERTOURPSCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwOTUxNDYyM1E1WVA5QkI4QjY4QSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX210ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU&th=1&psc=1

(comes in various colors):
https://www.amazon.com/Mother-Bride-Evening-Formal-Sleeve/dp/B0895VXX87/ref=sr_1_51?dchild=1&keywords=Burgundy%2BEvening%2BGown&qid=1626463499&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_feature_two_browse-bin%3A23490067011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011|2343361011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-51

https://www.amazon.com/Dresses-Sleeves-Evening-Chiffon-Burgundy/dp/B08C2LMMCH/ref=sr_1_55?dchild=1&keywords=Burgundy%2BEvening%2BGown&qid=1626463583&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_feature_two_browse-bin%3A23490067011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011|2343361011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-55

(comes in different colors)
https://www.amazon.com/Sleeve-Dresses-Wedding-Evening-Burgundy/dp/B08XPJ7QN8/ref=sr_1_83?dchild=1&keywords=Burgundy%2BEvening%2BGown&qid=1626463583&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_feature_two_browse-bin%3A23490067011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011|2343361011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-83&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Yuki-Isabelle-Mermaid-Dresses-Burgundy/dp/B089Q8W59L/ref=sr_1_107?dchild=1&keywords=Burgundy%2BEvening%2BGown&qid=1626463839&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_feature_two_browse-bin%3A23490067011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011|2343361011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-107

https://www.amazon.com/Chiffon-Mother-Dresses-Evening-Applique/dp/B07R2JJJTN/ref=sr_1_84?dchild=1&keywords=Navy%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bbride%2Bgown&qid=1626464410&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011&rnid=11006712011&s=apparel&sr=1-84&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/Alex-Evenings-Womens-Keyhole-Regular/dp/B0795169DZ/ref=sr_1_82?dchild=1&keywords=Navy+mother+of+bride+gown&qid=1626464410&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011&rnid=11006712011&s=apparel&sr=1-82

https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Dresses-Chiffon-Formal-Evening/dp/B07XM9FW72/ref=sr_1_167?dchild=1&keywords=Navy%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bbride%2Bgown&qid=1626464758&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011&rnid=11006712011&s=apparel&sr=1-167&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/ENKA-Womens-Sleeveless-Elegant-Evening/dp/B07VVGPDKF/ref=sr_1_189?dchild=1&keywords=Navy+mother+of+bride+gown&qid=1626464840&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011&rnid=11006712011&s=apparel&sr=1-189

https://www.amazon.com/Alex-Evenings-Womens-Empire-Embroidered/dp/B07VFGKHSG/ref=sr_1_62?dchild=1&keywords=Navy+mother+of+bride+gown&qid=1626465033&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-62

https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Sleeve-Appliques-Chiffon-Evening/dp/B07JM8RJQN/ref=sr_1_73?dchild=1&keywords=Navy+mother+of+bride+gown&qid=1626465098&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-73

https://www.amazon.com/AOOKSMERY-Elegance-Audrey-Hepburn-Sapphire/dp/B07KGNBH5J/ref=sr_1_92?dchild=1&keywords=Navy+mother+of+bride+gown&qid=1626465098&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A11006717011|11006718011%2Cp_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343350011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-92

https://www.bhldn.com/products/leila-satin-charmeuse-maxi-dress-midnight?color=Dark+Emerald&via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvM0ExOUUzNzE

https://www.bhldn.com/products/biscayne-dress?color=Navy&via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvM0ExOUUzNzE

https://www.bhldn.com/products/angeline-dress?via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvNTYxQTlBNTU

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-embroidered-illusion-lace-stretch-jersey-mermaid-gown/6109089?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FFormal&color=411
Just ordered this one in two sizes

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Very pretty.

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I think that is lovely @mom60 , seems great for an October wedding and is also at a great price!

Love it. Hope one of them fits. :slight_smile:

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@mom60
I like that one you just ordered! I came to this thread just now because my Facebook feed is showing ads for gowns now that I searched for you again today, ha ha. This very pretty one showed up, though it is pricey but seemed good for you and so thought I would show you anyway:
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/mac-duggal-floral-applique-flutter-sleeve-gown/5901966

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@mom60 Just discovered this one…neat color:
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/mac-duggal-butterfly-sleeve-satin-gown/6413542?origin=coordinating-6413542-0-11-PDP_2.SEEDED_SUB_1-recbot-new_arrival_category_brand&recs_placement=PDP_2.SEEDED_SUB-1&recs_strategy=new_arrival_category_brand&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=product&recs_seed=5901966&color=RASPBERRY

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Wow, that pink is pretty! Just went through this whole thread – thanks for all the suggestions! – and am still discouraged. My daughter’s wedding is in early November. The bridesmaids are wearing navy and she doesn’t want me to wear navy. Everything I like is navy! Also, she and I both think the best length is ballerina/mid length and I don’t see much in that length. I do not like sequins, beads, ruffles, etc. – I’m a pretty tailored type. Can’t figure out what color to wear and also what style. I’m 5’3", busty (no plunging necklines!) and size 8. I have a tummy so nothing clingy. AND I’m on the young side for a MOB so I don’t want anything beige/lacy/dowdy looking. I’ve been searching for months and honestly haven’t found anything approaching what I’m looking for . . . has anyone had a dress made by a tailor?

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For @KirbyMom

(I realize it is embellished, but it is not overkill in that way)

(too embellished for you?)

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/kay-unger-new-york-capri-v-neck-3-4-sleeve-belted-stretch-faille-gown-prod227320272?childItemId=NMT05EK_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=34
(you could shorten it a bit)

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/rickie-freeman-for-teri-jon-sleeveless-surplice-drape-jacquard-dress-prod242190001?childItemId=NMT0THN_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=68

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/rickie-freeman-for-teri-jon-v-neck-puff-sleeve-pleated-chiffon-gown-prod240940377?childItemId=NMT1XK6_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=84
(could shorten a bit if you wish)

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/marchesa-notte-bridesmaid-boat-neck-ruffle-sleeve-slit-gown-prod239550078?childItemId=NMT1RWK_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=102
(could be shortened)

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/kay-unger-new-york-adelina-v-neck-long-sleeve-stretch-faille-gown-w-side-slit-prod226540385?childItemId=NMT013M_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=103
(could be shortened if prefer)

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/jason-wu-v-neck-long-sleeve-smocked-chiffon-dress-prod239340182?childItemId=NMT1PTN_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat64050762&page=0&position=2

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/badgley-mischka-collection-flutter-sleeve-flounce-hem-scuba-dress-prod236390019?childItemId=NMT1CUG_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat64050762&page=0&position=15

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/mac-duggal-sequined-floral-lace-long-sleeve-illusion-dress-prod240960074?childItemId=NMT1VMK_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat64050762&page=0&position=22

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/aidan-mattox-cowl-neck-satin-gown-prod243450374?childItemId=NMT25HM_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat64050762&page=1&position=34
(could shorten if desired)

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/tadashi-shoji-v-neck-short-sleeve-lace-tiered-midi-dress-prod241050227?childItemId=NMT1XT8_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat64050762&page=1&position=68
(too much lace??)

https://www.dillards.com/p/jessica-howard-portrait-collar-party-dress/504549591?googleShop=Y

https://www.dillards.com/p/tahari-asl-soutache-lace-hi-low-midi-dress/511217732

I know you are not that into lace, but this is an unusual dress and would coordinate with the navy bridesmaids’ dresses and has classic look to it:
https://www.dillards.com/p/kay-unger-claudia-twill-and-lace-tea-length-dress/513093753

https://www.dillards.com/p/kay-unger-bria-stretch-crepe-ruffle-jewel-neck-34-sleeve-hi-low-dress/513049734

https://www.dillards.com/p/betsy--adam-square-neck-beaded-flutter-sleeve-midi-dress/512655952

https://www.dillards.com/p/komarov-34-lace-sleeve-pleated-charmeuse-floral-print-a-line-midi-dress/512940224

Access Denied

https://www.amazon.com/Alex-Evenings-Womens-Detail-Regular/dp/B07Q4F26YG/ref=cs_sr_dp_3?dchild=1&keywords=Tea%2BLength%2BEvening%2BDresses&qid=1626559898&sr=8-43&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Mother-Dresses-Chiffon-Mothers-Vestido/dp/B08NPWVMFC/ref=sr_1_130?dchild=1&keywords=tea+length+mother+of+the+bride+dresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560185&sr=8-130

https://www.amazon.com/S-L-Fashions-Womens-Sleeveless-NAVYMULTI/dp/B07QGTX1HS/ref=sr_1_141?dchild=1&keywords=tea+length+mother+of+the+bride+dresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560185&sr=8-141
(could shorten to tea length)

https://www.amazon.com/S-L-Fashions-Womens-Sleeveless-NAVYMULTI/dp/B07F1GM6ZP/ref=sr_1_141?dchild=1&keywords=tea%2Blength%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bthe%2Bbride%2Bdresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560185&sr=8-141&th=1
(could shorten to tea length)

https://www.amazon.com/Elinadrs-Womens-Sleeves-Evening-Dresses/dp/B085X9T2WF/ref=cs_sr_dp_6?dchild=1&keywords=tea%2Blength%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bthe%2Bbride%2Bdresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560429&sr=8-154&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Length-Mother-Pockets-Chiffon-Evening/dp/B08XK2WS1S/ref=sr_1_169?dchild=1&keywords=tea%2Blength%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bthe%2Bbride%2Bdresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560514&sr=8-169&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Urban-CoCo-Sleeve-V-Neck-Stretchy/dp/B017YMKWX6/ref=sr_1_202?dchild=1&keywords=tea%2Blength%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bthe%2Bbride%2Bdresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560597&sr=8-202&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/MACloth-Sleeve-Wedding-Mother-Silver/dp/B07RXJJGGX/ref=sr_1_257?dchild=1&keywords=tea%2Blength%2Bmother%2Bof%2Bthe%2Bbride%2Bdresses&pd_rd_r=de2da11e-a811-46f6-bff3-7109ee5b6205&pd_rd_w=IsSUX&pd_rd_wg=Fghkr&pf_rd_p=4fa0e97a-13a4-491b-a127-133a554b4da3&pf_rd_r=VRN8PKHZR5S3RG949VAK&qid=1626560858&sr=8-257&th=1

https://www.hobbs.com/us/product/tara-dress/0220-5437-3655L00-FIELD-GREEN.html

https://www.hobbs.com/us/product/marlene-satin-midi-dress/0220-5406-3786L00-FUCHSIA.html#navAjax=true&imageType=cutout&is=false&sz=60&start=60&cgid=occasion-wedding-guest&isSecondPage=false&pid=0220-5406-3786L00-FUCHSIA&pos=63
(you said you liked this color)

https://www.hobbs.com/us/product/the-skye-silk-dress-outfit/0121-skye-dress-occasion-outfit.html#cgid=outfits-occasion&is=false&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=0121-skye-dress-occasion-outfit&pos=11
(I realize this one is navy, but it is floral and would compliment the bridesmaids dresses)

You want classic and tea length? Well this is quite classic:

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Wow! Great ideas @soozievt

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Thank you so much, @soozievt! Very generous of you. I’ll have fun looking at all these dresses.

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You are welcome. Let me/us know if any appeal enough to you to try out.

Yes, I had my dress made for son’s wedding this past Memorial Day. It was beautifully made and fit me perfectly. I had much anxiety about shopping for a dress knowing it was highly unlikely I would find something that suited my body in a color I loved and also fit really well. I heard from friends about a woman who makes custom gowns and I called right away for a consultation. I am so happy I went that route and ended up a with a beautiful couture gown. Generally I shy away from being in pictures, but I was happy to take part when wearing this dress.

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Yes, I had a dress made. Mine was royal blue, the bridesmaids wore dark green. Mine was a tunic with pants, all silk. Some lace and blue Swarovski sequins near the top and layers. It is a National company, but fortunately the main sewing room is in my area.

My office manager is a 2x or a 3x. She chose a standard dress from their catalogue, in a goldish color which looked great with her blonde hair.
Sarah Mique

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I love that light blue Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon dress from Neiman’s that @soozievt linked. So elegant!

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