The four dresses I ordered came while I was out of town.
The “famous” Alex evening dress- I didn’t love the navy of the one I ordered. I think it’s too dark almost black. One issue I found is that it’s large in the chest and I’m not sure how that can be altered. Overall it’s a very pretty dress but maybe not the dress for me. I like that it isn’t super long. I might try ordering in a different color and maybe a petite if they have it and hope it’s smaller in the chest.
One of the dresses I’m not even taking out of the packing as I can tell I don’t like the color.
https://www.adriannapapell.com/products/sleeveless-high-low-dress-with-ruffle-accents-in-burgundy-glow-ap1e203541
I love the color but again it’s large through the chest. Also the waist drop didn’t hit me right. For someone with a different shaped body it’s a beautiful dress at a good price.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07L52S21T/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
This one fit nicely through the top. I like the color. It’s just about 2 feet too long! With the layers I’m not sure how much it would cost to alter. I’m going to look at a few more dresses of the same brand.
My takeaway from the four dresses is I need a dress without a structured bustline. I need some stretch I think.
@mom60…I don’t know your size, but given what you are seeking, would this work?:
https://www.amazon.com/Halston-Heritage-Womens-Empire-Embellished/dp/B07ZHZ4VM4/ref=sr_1_31?dchild=1&qid=1626462642&refinements=p_89%3AHalston+Heritage&s=apparel&sr=1-31
Mine was lavender which I don’t think they make any longer. It was a petite size. Honestly, the whole dress needed to be altered so I can’t tell you if the petite is smaller on top. But it was altered to perfection so it can be done.
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-embroidered-illusion-lace-stretch-jersey-mermaid-gown/6109089?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FFormal&color=411
Just ordered this one in two sizes
Very pretty.
I think that is lovely @mom60 , seems great for an October wedding and is also at a great price!
Love it. Hope one of them fits.
@mom60
I like that one you just ordered! I came to this thread just now because my Facebook feed is showing ads for gowns now that I searched for you again today, ha ha. This very pretty one showed up, though it is pricey but seemed good for you and so thought I would show you anyway:
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/mac-duggal-floral-applique-flutter-sleeve-gown/5901966
@mom60 Just discovered this one…neat color:
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/mac-duggal-butterfly-sleeve-satin-gown/6413542?origin=coordinating-6413542-0-11-PDP_2.SEEDED_SUB_1-recbot-new_arrival_category_brand&recs_placement=PDP_2.SEEDED_SUB-1&recs_strategy=new_arrival_category_brand&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=product&recs_seed=5901966&color=RASPBERRY
Wow, that pink is pretty! Just went through this whole thread – thanks for all the suggestions! – and am still discouraged. My daughter’s wedding is in early November. The bridesmaids are wearing navy and she doesn’t want me to wear navy. Everything I like is navy! Also, she and I both think the best length is ballerina/mid length and I don’t see much in that length. I do not like sequins, beads, ruffles, etc. – I’m a pretty tailored type. Can’t figure out what color to wear and also what style. I’m 5’3", busty (no plunging necklines!) and size 8. I have a tummy so nothing clingy. AND I’m on the young side for a MOB so I don’t want anything beige/lacy/dowdy looking. I’ve been searching for months and honestly haven’t found anything approaching what I’m looking for . . . has anyone had a dress made by a tailor?
For @KirbyMom
(I realize it is embellished, but it is not overkill in that way)
(too embellished for you?)
https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/kay-unger-new-york-capri-v-neck-3-4-sleeve-belted-stretch-faille-gown-prod227320272?childItemId=NMT05EK_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=34
(you could shorten it a bit)
https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/rickie-freeman-for-teri-jon-v-neck-puff-sleeve-pleated-chiffon-gown-prod240940377?childItemId=NMT1XK6_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=84
(could shorten a bit if you wish)
https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/kay-unger-new-york-adelina-v-neck-long-sleeve-stretch-faille-gown-w-side-slit-prod226540385?childItemId=NMT013M_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat10040737&page=0&position=103
(could be shortened if prefer)
https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/aidan-mattox-cowl-neck-satin-gown-prod243450374?childItemId=NMT25HM_&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat64050762&page=1&position=34
(could shorten if desired)
https://www.dillards.com/p/jessica-howard-portrait-collar-party-dress/504549591?googleShop=Y
https://www.dillards.com/p/tahari-asl-soutache-lace-hi-low-midi-dress/511217732
I know you are not that into lace, but this is an unusual dress and would coordinate with the navy bridesmaids’ dresses and has classic look to it:
https://www.dillards.com/p/kay-unger-claudia-twill-and-lace-tea-length-dress/513093753
https://www.dillards.com/p/betsy--adam-square-neck-beaded-flutter-sleeve-midi-dress/512655952
https://www.hobbs.com/us/product/tara-dress/0220-5437-3655L00-FIELD-GREEN.html
https://www.hobbs.com/us/product/marlene-satin-midi-dress/0220-5406-3786L00-FUCHSIA.html#navAjax=true&imageType=cutout&is=false&sz=60&start=60&cgid=occasion-wedding-guest&isSecondPage=false&pid=0220-5406-3786L00-FUCHSIA&pos=63
(you said you liked this color)
https://www.hobbs.com/us/product/the-skye-silk-dress-outfit/0121-skye-dress-occasion-outfit.html#cgid=outfits-occasion&is=false&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=0121-skye-dress-occasion-outfit&pos=11
(I realize this one is navy, but it is floral and would compliment the bridesmaids dresses)
You want classic and tea length? Well this is quite classic:
Wow! Great ideas @soozievt
Thank you so much, @soozievt! Very generous of you. I’ll have fun looking at all these dresses.
You are welcome. Let me/us know if any appeal enough to you to try out.
Yes, I had my dress made for son’s wedding this past Memorial Day. It was beautifully made and fit me perfectly. I had much anxiety about shopping for a dress knowing it was highly unlikely I would find something that suited my body in a color I loved and also fit really well. I heard from friends about a woman who makes custom gowns and I called right away for a consultation. I am so happy I went that route and ended up a with a beautiful couture gown. Generally I shy away from being in pictures, but I was happy to take part when wearing this dress.
Yes, I had a dress made. Mine was royal blue, the bridesmaids wore dark green. Mine was a tunic with pants, all silk. Some lace and blue Swarovski sequins near the top and layers. It is a National company, but fortunately the main sewing room is in my area.
My office manager is a 2x or a 3x. She chose a standard dress from their catalogue, in a goldish color which looked great with her blonde hair.
Sarah Mique
I love that light blue Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon dress from Neiman’s that @soozievt linked. So elegant!