<p>I can understand Soozies’s confusion, as looking through this thread, dadII comments:
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<p>But, as for the third comment, if faced with the opportunity for his DS to join DD at Stanford (but requiring som OOP $$ from DadII) vs. a total complete free ride at say, U of Alabama (plus travel stipend and laptop) requiring that he “not soend a penny more than he has to”, I am betting DS will be at Stanford</p>