<p>Since I have been quite busy…i have been answering question and i would like to answer the ones that havent already been answered. </p>
<p>Ummm…</p>
<p>"I’m wondering if you experienced any hazing when you went through rush. I’ve heard that a few sororities (perhaps Alpha Chi Omega, Tri-Delt and some others) haze girls in some crazy ways. I’m really excited about hopefully joining a sorority but I’m not into the stereotypical hazing/caddy girls. Did you experience anything like this? Or do you think this is mostly just a series of rumors?</p>
<p>Also, could you talk a little about the party scene? Are frat parties and such often exclusive? Or can pretty much anyone get in? How often to people generally go out and are the parties usually pretty laid back, (beer pong, just hanging out) or are there more dance parties and stuff? A mix?"</p>
<p>Ok… ummm</p>
<p>With sororities, they haze. And it doesn’t really go by the whole sorority, it goes by who is your “big” and who is you “little”. You big might be sadistic and make you do all this crazy **** and be their ***** for a a week or more or she might be nice and shower you with presents. If you are not into hazing at all I would suggest SDT or Phi Sig, because I think there hazing policies are more enforced. I know some Alpha Phi, Theta and DEFINTELY some Tabards who had to do ridiculous stuff that I would never do. Regardless, the rumor is true, though the stereotypes of the sororities that you seen on various threads are DEFINITELY not true. I know for a fact that almost all the frats haze their pledges. Period.</p>
<p>Frats parties can be exclusive (mainly mixer, date parties, and invite only parties). But if you heard about a party down the grapevine, more likely that not, it is inclusive. However, it doesn’t mean that you can’t get in. Alot frats emphasize the need for girls, so you have to have a good ratio and don’t travel with too many guys or you wouldn’t get in. Frats will not let you in if the party is full. A good way to get in is know some of the brothers or the pledges, call a friend who is already inside, or get there early. If not then the guy at a the door just wants to be an ******* and you can just wait for him to switch posts. During NSO, its pretty easy because everyone is trowing a party. Alot of people (girls mostly) try to sweet talk the guys guarding the door, but its not classy and comes off a desperate and I rather find another party than be reject repeatedly. </p>
<p>“And how hard would you say it is to find friends? I’m friendly and have quite a few friends in high school but I’m not a total extrovert and I’m so paranoid/worried that I’ll get a “bad” roommate that I don’t click with and I’ll struggle to meet people.”</p>
<p>Its not hard to find friends unless you are ridiculously awkward or severely antisocial. It is a little harder if you don’t really like your hall (which I didn’t much), despise your roommates, or don’t join any clubs or sports. But eventually you’ll find a comfortable friend base that will grow as college goes on, so don’t worry.</p>