<p>We have heard from one college so far (acceptance). That acceptance included information about an accepted students day but many of the rest of the colleges my D1 applied to do not list accepted students days on their websites. I do not want to call admissions offices about accepted students days when she has not yet been accepted as I feel it would be seen as helicopter parenting. (And to ask her to do it under the stress she is under waiting seems cruel.) Yet we are in a similar dilemma having to make travel plans on short notice (once we hear of acceptances) from clear across the country. Does anyone know of a master list of these dates or how to find them on college websites that don’t list them on their events or admissions calendars? Why are they so secretive?!! It would be nice to have a general idea before two weeks before we need to fly somewhere. Kind of insensitive if you ask me!</p>