hi so my mother is really old and has antiquated ideas about financial aid and where all her information is going. for the past two years i’ve been able to get her information for both the FAFSA / CSS Profile. However, this year she has gotten extremely paranoid and while I was able to get processed the FAFSA, she refuses to give me the necessary information for the CSS Profile. Adding more complications, she hasn’t filed her taxes because her tax guy has been continuously lying to her and she’s in denial and refuses to do anything about it until he reaches out to her and gives her back her documents but she won’t do anything about it. I am completely dependent on her to pay for college as i am POOR and cannot afford the school I go to by myself at all.
Because of these issues and her refusal to do anything about it, I have decided that I want to take out as many loans as I can just so I can have more independence in my life away from her despite the debt that is already singing my name. Like I said previously, the FAFSA has been processed but I just decided to do this now, so I am not really sure if i can even get loans at this time considering the FAFSA has been processed. I emailed my schools finaid already but they’re horrible at responding (as per usual.)
Because of the time frame, I’m 100% sure she’ll get audited if her taxes ever get filed which makes it even harder for her to believe that it’s fine for her to give me the information for the CSS Profile. My school requires the CSS Profile for any aid at all and I am so frustrated because I can’t seem to get any independence or help from my mother. Please, if you have any advice to give, it would be greatly appreciated.
PS: pls do not speak on relationships you know nothing about