<p>OP, Congrats on your son's admission to Harvard. </p>
<p>As with other posters, we also came from another coast, and the best advice that I can give is to take the least amount of stuff possible and fly (I know, easy to say, but not easy to do). We took almost everything that DD needed in suitcases (to be fair, there were four of us), and bought the rest in the Boston area. Some stores, I think Linen-n-Things, allow you to shop for things in your home store, and pick them up in Boston. FWIW, if you rent a car, you can easily drive to nearby shopping centers - and there are many in the Cambridge/Boston area. If you are buying a bunch of stuff, you can even drive to New Hampshire and buy everything tax free (less than one hour from Cambridge). </p>
<p>In regards to the futon, as others have said, some of the frosh rooms at Harvard are very small. I would, therefore, advise you to wait until your son is actually in his room to see if he should buy one. I am not sure about the necessity of a refrigerator or microwave - DD and her four roomies have done fine without these items. In any case, the only type of microwave that is allowed in the frosh dorms is one that you have to rent from Harvard Student Agencies (HSA), and, IMHO, it is not a good deal.</p>
<p>While I am on the topic of HSA, I would avoid the linen packages that they offer - you will receive advertisements from them in June/July. Their packages are expensive and their sheets are not the softest.</p>
<p>One more thing, if your DS participates in one of the pre-orientation activities (e.g. Dorm Crew), he can get his keys the day before everyone else. DD was able to do this, and we actually moved her in -all of her suitcases and the things that we had purchased locally- the evening before move-in day. Needless to say, this was a blessing as move in day, especially if you got there after 11:00, was a zoo. We were actually lucky to find metered parking, which was free after 6:00 p.m., right off Mass Ave. on the evening before move-in day.</p>