MS 1 Reflections

<p>I don't post many threads but I'm bored after work so this is going to be one long ass post.</p>

<p>Here's my two pennies on life as a M1:</p>

<p>Academics: In some ways, the M1 year is like your freshman year of college. It takes a lot of adjustment and perhaps the development of new study habits. You were hot stuff before but you go into med school much like you go into college, with some uncertainty of whether you'll remain a top student or whether you'll be scraping the bottom of the barrel.</p>

<p>That said, med school is harder than college. Duh. Not only in terms of class time devoted to science but in terms of how much you have to learn per hour of lecture. You will likely have to study more and you will likely have to make many sacrifices.</p>

<p>The biggest change in terms of grading is simply that the means on tests are a lot higher. I'm used to means of 55-65% on science tests but, regardless of how tough the tests have been in med school, the mean has never dipped below 80%. Usually, you have to score 95%+ to be in the top 15%. I'm thoroughly impressed with my classmates. I knew they were smart (70% of the class from Top 20 college, 3.8/35 averages coming in) but what's impressed me far more is how hard working they are. I've never seen such a diligent bunch. They put my Cornell classmates to shame in work ethic.</p>

<p>Extracurriculars: People spend less time on EC's. They don't count very much for residency apps and people just don't have free time. But, most people still find a few activities that they can engage in and you know they're not doing it to pad their resume. It's refreshing to see people actually passionate about the causes they're fighting for, whether it's lobbying for universal healthcare or LGBT rights. </p>

<p>Social life: For me, it's very similar to high school. Everyone knows everyone else's business because there's usually only 100-200 kids per graduating class. You'll eventually form cliques but will generally remain on friendly terms with everyone else. The spectrum of social lives vary from non-existent (those aiming for plastics) to quite similar to college (ie lotsa drinking). </p>

<p>It's very hard to meet non-med school people. There are not that many opportunities to if you don't actively seek it out. I actually spend more time with my girlfriend and her friends than my med school classmates. Sometimes, it's refreshing to hang out with "real" people who have real problems instead of the former Ivy Leaguers from upper middle class neighborhoods that I'm used to. And, despite all the borderline suicidal threads whining about, gasp, a B- in a class, we have lived relatively cushy lives compared with 90% of the general population. It does take some luck and fortune to get to where we are. And, for the sake of our future careers as physicians, it's useful to be able to identify with those who come from different backgrounds. One of the main sources of conflict b/w my gf and I is the fact we have had drastically different experiences and thus it's hard sometimes for us to appreciate the perspective of the other.</p>

<p>All in all, my M1 year passed very fast for me. There was some stress from academics but not as much as I thought there would be. M2 year will be tougher but luckily for me I still have a few tricks up my sleeve (like going to class) that should help take some of the load off.</p>

<p>thanks for this norcalguy…as an incoming MS1 it’s nice to hear this kind of stuff</p>

<p>few questions:
where do you go to med school? (you can PM me this if you don’t want to post it)
what are you doing over the summer?
where you involved in any ECs? what about specialty specific interest groups?</p>

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<li><p>That’ll remain a secret. I like being shrouded by mystery (well as much mystery as I can have after 6000 posts)</p></li>
<li><p>Summer research in radiology</p></li>
<li><p>I’m the president of the radiology interest group in my med school. I’m also a chair in AMSA at my school. I mentor one high school student weekly for one program and I mentor another student as part of a mentoring organization I co-founded this last year (we were awarded two grants to keep it going). And of course, gf is my biggest non-academic time commitment.</p></li>
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<p>In your opinion, when would be the “best” time for a premed or MS student to start to settle down with his gf or her bf? (to be politically correct, should I add his bf or her gf here :-)) A potential problem as I can see is that, if a couple go steady in college, after they are graduated from college, they may go to different cities thousands miles apart. Then they need to maintain a long distance relationship, which is not ideal.</p>

<p>I also think it is more advantageous to go to a MS in a big city (like you do), as there are fewer opportunities to meet suitable gf/bf if a student goes to a MS in a rural area.</p>

<p>mcat
As a Prof let me tell you that if you look at “the odds”, almost 90% of marriages (that meet and get married) while in med school or early residency end up in divorce. There are two big reasons. One, as nocal sort of hit on, when you come home after dissecting out the radial artery or seeing the first patient with a mitral valve defect, your spouse “does not understand” your excitement, so you go out with fellow students to discuss it and take more time from them. Two (and perhaps more imp) your spouse “waits” for you for 4 - 8 years for “it to get better” which it never does.
Relationships that started in college do much better - perhaps as you know each other better.</p>

<p>I guess that’s another reason you see many Doctors marrying other Doctors…they can empathize and they get it…</p>

<p>ea
I would say it is why many docs marry their nurses for their 2nd - xth marriage.</p>

<p>What is even worse though is having a child in med school/residency.</p>

<p>i suggest that if u have a significant other, u look at the relationship realistically. i will be an ms1 this coming august and have been with my bf for 3.5 years. however, we’re waiting to see how ms1 goes, along with his full time job, before we even discuss anything permanent. it’s a sad way to think about it, but it’s better to know exactly what you’re getting into before u move forward. such is the life of a med student/physician.</p>

<p>Well that’s just great…</p>

<p>good to know that my girlfriend and I are looking through down the barrel of that gun. However, this text exchange from earlier in the day is definitely representative of the differences in our professional interests.</p>

<p>To set the scene, I’m in day 2 of my Pediatric Advanced Life Support class with my fellow interns, and we’ve just spent the last hour suturing pig’s feet as sort of a bonus extra from the Peds ER fellows. Meanwhile, my girlfriend (who just finished her first year of law school and is clerking for the State Municipal League) is at a Continuing Legal Education Seminar over city/county legal issues.</p>

<p>Dr. Bigredmed: Just got done sewing up pig’s feet!
The GF: So jealous! Learning about the 14th Amendment in relation to cops!</p>

<p>I thought it was funny…</p>

<p>My gf is actually going into nursing (and comes from a family of nurses) so we don’t have a problem talking about medicine and all that stuff. The conflict comes from different non-academic experiences and our general life history.</p>

<p>We also have a rule that we’re not going to discuss the future (ie “If we’re still together when you finish med school…” type stuff). She understands my schedule to the point that she is apologetic/borderline guilty for spending any time with me (she thinks I’m busier than I really am). We usually hang out 1.5 days/week (during which I do no studying and spend the entirety of my time with her) and it’s enough for us.</p>