I am a music student seeking advice.
I go to a small private LAC out of state.
There are many reasons why I chose to attend school where I did. First of all, I have a learning disability, and small schools/small class sizes are really good for students like me, and my meeting with disability services went very well when I visited. It was also among the most competitive schools I applied to.
I also had no idea what I wanted to study, and LACs are great for figuring this out. I had thought about music as a major but wasn’t completely ready to commit. In HS, and before, I really loved music, but sometimes, because of my learning issues, I had to work so so hard for those A’s, and academics took up all my time, which made it hard for me to practice a lot and get serious about music (and, honestly, have a life outside of school!)
I love music, there were times in HS when I really wanted to study it in college, and was recognized by my teachers and peers as a strong performer, but struggled with anxiety and stage fright (exacerbated by an anxiety disorder!) and didn’t do well in some auditions for youth orchestras and honor bands, which made me feel like I wasn’t “cut out” to study music in college.
When I got to college, however, I just fell in love with my music classes. I did well in them, and also love the department, the camaraderie between the music students, and, most of all, performing (large groups, chamber music, and solo) I also have an amazing private teacher with whom I have grown SO much as a performer. I also entered the school’s concerto competition my first year, and loved preparing for that-- even though I didn’t win (I won my sophomore year) this really sealed the deal on my music major and aspirations to perform professionally. I also did a summer masterclass/camp after my first year, and I really loved it.
So I declared my music major my sophomore year. At this school, all music majors receive a BA rather than a BM/BFA, and there is a strong liberal arts, rather than a performance, focus.
I love the department, even though it’s very small, love my teacher, practice a lot, and have really grown as a performer since starting college (my stage fright is SO much better!)
But, when I started telling friends/family about my career aspirations, they ask me why I haven’t transferred to a school that offers a performance degree. I understand why they ask me that, and I have had some concerns before.
My biggest concern is just the seriousness of other musicians-- there are not many other music majors. I am the only student in the orchestra with aspirations to be a professional performer. I love my peers at this school, and there are other very strong musicians, but I worry that In general I am a “big fish in a small pond” and that there aren’t a lot of musicians here who I can really look up to.
I also started going to performances at a large public university across town. I also went to studio recitals and started meeting other musicians (i.e. Masters performance students) who I could see as mentors.
I am also lucky to be in a metropolitan area, so I can get gigs and have entered competitions in the area (and won a few of them!) I also go to intensive music summer schools, masterclasses, etc.
I also do love taking humanities/language/other liberal arts classes. I have even gotten a handful of academic awards. I have the option of double majoring (possible in 4 yrs) and the only thing keeping me from declaring a second major right not is that I’m worried about not having as much time as I would like to practice!
There are a few other things I am still worried about:
1- I heard that both summer schools and masters programs will choose students from well known music schools before students from schools nobody knows about (like mine), even if my audition is comparable to music students at prestigious colleges/universities. This worries me.
2- this private LAC is expensive. I have a small scholarship and am not taking out loans, but it would make an expensive masters program in performance more difficult to afford. Sometimes I feel like I would get more “bang for my buck” if I went to a public university and had more intensive music instruction. Then I could more easily afford, for example, really good university/conservatory study for grad school.
3- balancing academics and practicing is very hard. I have managed well so far, but sometimes I am frustrated when I really want to practice, but also need to study a lot to do well. It has taken a toll on my sleep schedule & work/life balance.
4- I wonder all the time: “am I good enough??” I have had teachers tell me I am a strong player, but I don’t belong to a studio of other performance majors and sometimes wonder how I compare to other musicians my age. The “big fish/small pond” thing also may misguide me-- summer schools have been great for exposing me to other strong players and give me perspective on how I compare to the average performance major my age.
I love my school, but sometimes I wonder if I’m making the right decision by staying here.
I am itching for a more intensive musical experience, so I do really, really really want to go to grad school for music performance.
Anyone been in a similar situation??
Any advice will be SUPER appreciated!!
Thanks