<p>About this ranking thing :)...</p>
<p>With so many new posters 'on board' I thought I'd bring to the forefront again that there is nothing as personal as picking a college that is the right fit, especially when it comes to MT, and when it came to coming up with "her top 12", it turned out that my D put together quite a eclectic list. </p>
<p>Although it is nice to have a starting point and work with The List on top of our forum, I found that some top schools we researched and "I fell in love with", were not necessarily the right fit for my D. We started out visiting some schools (mostly when we happened to be in the area for other reasons), and I was really thrown off in the beginning by the influence of the "gut feeling" my D had when she would wonder around and/or speak to current students/faculty. This is really incredibly personal.</p>
<p>It soon became clear that living in CA, there was no way we could afford to visit every single school. To compensate and beginning to have a better feeling for what she was looking for, she spent more time seeking out current students at the different schools, and she looked in more detail at their curriculae.</p>
<p>For her it became clear that ideally she wanted the "most intensive training, with equal emphasis on acting, singing & dancing", "some academics mixed in", an urban-ish setting, study abroad/internship/summer job opportunities and a larger sized class & faculty. Not all of the schools on her final list offered all of these elements, but in the end were places where she could see herself attending (for at least three reasons on her list) and be happy. Her final list: Elon, Point Park, Penn, Syracuse, CMU, CCM, NYU Tisch, Marymount Manhattan, Pace University, Webster, UMich, & Boco.</p>
<p>Having worked since she was 12, saving up all her money for college, and with some help from her grandparents, she was fortunate that she was able to audition without a "sticker price" restriction. </p>
<p>I think it is really important to remember that some kids would be downright miserable in certain environments, no matter how "top" the school might be. Also, although it is natural to, even subconsciously, have a first choice, I would venture to say it is critical to keep reminding yourself and your child throughout this process that he or she has "ten number one choices". </p>
<p>One of D's friends (who is now at Harvard) really, really had her heart set on going to Yale. She was completely devastated when she did not get in and had a hard time being even remotely happy about her acceptances (Brown, Columbia, Princeton...). </p>
<p>There truly is a path, plan and place for everyone, albeit not the same one :).</p>