<p>that will be good, and don't give ANY advice or jump in right away...sopmething we moms have a very difficult time doing</p>
<p>She is probably mad at herself, this is not the end of the world, and it won't ruin her future or anything</p>
<p>your a good mom, and your D will be fine, every kids falters at some time</p>
<p>just here on CC, well, a whole different cup of tea</p>
<p>I've noticed that, in fact, I was a little hesitant to post at first. However everyone has been so insightful and given me lots of good advice. It's great to learn from other people's experiences. This is a whole new ball game, not sure I was ready, but I'm getting on board.</p>
<p>Actually, you've said it here yourself, this is good experience for a year hence when your daughter is in college and (1)she must advocate for herself, and (2) you really can't run interference. If she is looking at the college viewbooks and planning college trips, good for her. Obviously some people must self-destruct in the independent study program if the grade is not factored into the GPA. Good luck. It sounds as if you have a great kid and that you are doing a good job.</p>