I agree with @austinmshauri I think you need to take the affordable brick and mortar option in WV and get your teaching credentials there. If your boyfriend who loves you can’t support your achieving your educational goals, the way that you are supporting his educational goals, then you have a lot of talking to do.
From a parent’s perspective I would strongly discourage my child from being with someone with a lot of educational debt (may make exceptions for med/law school but then she made law school choices that gave her very little debt.). because it provides a window as to how they handle finances and it may affect their long term ability to purchase a house/car/vacations/kids (because educational debt is not dischargeable through bankruptcy)