thumper, the asset protection for a single parent is only about $9-10k. Sadly, singles get screwed. Zmanlane, if your mother buys the house now, that money would be ‘gone’ for next year but if you already, her assets are assessed on the date you filed.
If you are looking for a good deal, I think you’ll find your best deal in Florida. You have the prepaid, and even though you have a 2+2, i’m pretty sure you can upgrade the community college years to a full 4 year. You’d also have bright futures. If you go to a private school, you’d get a FRAG grant of $3000. If you pick UCF, there are a number of scholarships.
I think you’ll spend as much time on your sport at a D2 school as at a D3, you just won’t get any money for it. My daughter loves the structure of playing on a team, the required study tables, the scheduled workouts. She also loved the scheduling help from the coach when a class she needed was full. (Amazing, but a spot opened up that didn’t conflict with practice!) She doesn’t have to work because the athletic scholarship takes care of the amount I think she should have to pay.
We did look at some D3 LACs and most expected us to pay about $20-25k (EFC similar to yours) Yes, that’s for everything, but you have to find a school willing to meet your need, with or without loans, above your EFC. The schools in Florida, even the private ones, were a better deal. There are LACs/small universities in Florida that have tennis teams if that’s what you are looking for - Flagler, Florida Southern, U of Tampa, St. Leo’s, Rollins, Stetson and Jacksonville, and you’d get to use Bright Futures and FRAG.
You and your mother need to decide if $20k per year is worth it at an LAC. I think it is too much to pay 1/4 of your salary on school, but she may be comfortable with that amount.