Can you look down south at colleges then? I know Georgia has some very inexpensive programs.
Look at Ramapo and Rowan though - both have Cost of Attendance (COA, includes everything like books, personal expenses etc) of about $28,000 a year. Bloomfield COA is $43,000 and looking at the students Bloomfield admits, Bloomfield is a much less competitive school. Why pay so much more for a lower quality school?
Don’t know your stats, but Rowan gives merit aid and there is a clear chart of how much on their website.(below, per year for 4 years). Ramapo also gives merit, they offered my student $10,000 a year for 4 years.
SAT Range* Scholarship amount range**
1,500-1,600 $10,900-$21,800
1,400-1,499 $10,400-$20,800
1,350-1,399 $9,000-$16,000
1,300-1,349 $8,500-$13,500
1,250-1,299 $4,700-$7,400
1,200-1,249 $2,000-$4,000
1,150-1,199 $2,000
And not to stress you out further, but where are you planning to live during winter/spring/summer breaks if your mom moves down south? Make sure you add travel expenses several times a year to get down there if you don’t have anyone here to stay with. Lots of kids travel home for holidays and breaks, but it isn’t free
Best of luck!