<p>There are generally two reasons to visit schools before you apply–(a) so that you can decide whether you like a school and (b) to show the school that you’re interested. In a post on another thread, you had indicated that you were interested in the following schools:</p>
<p>UIUC
Penn State - University Park
Purdue
UW Madison
UMich Ann Arbor
Virginia Tech
RPI
Carnegie Mellon
Cornell
Duke
UPenn
Columbia
Princeton </p>
<p>As to the second reason, most of the schools on your list–state schools and ivies–don’t care if you show interest, so if your father is adamant about no/few visits, I would not even discuss visiting those schools. In terms of CMU, Duke and RPI, on the Common Data Set, CMU says that it considers the level of an applicant’s interest as an “important” factor–here’s the link to the page <a href=“http://www.cmu.edu/ira/CDS/pdf/cds_2010_11/c_firstyear_admission.pdf[/url]”>http://www.cmu.edu/ira/CDS/pdf/cds_2010_11/c_firstyear_admission.pdf</a>, as does RPI <a href=“http://www.rpi.edu/about/cds/CDS2008_2009.pdf[/url]”>http://www.rpi.edu/about/cds/CDS2008_2009.pdf</a></p>
<p>Duke doesn’t say whether interest matters one way or another.</p>
<p>I think that I would do everything I could to show interest in RPI and CMU short of visiting (attend a nearby college fair, email one of the professors about a question you might have, email the admissions officer about a question you might have, see if the schools will be visiting somewhere near you etc.) and then show your father the data about interest being important. Maybe you can convince him to let you visit at least one of them. In addition, as megan12 has suggested, see if you can get him to compromise on the number of schools you will be applying to. </p>
<p>Finally, although you might not want to add to your list, I would also suggest that you consider schools that might give you significant merit money, because $30,000 is not going to be enough for many of the schools on your list unless you get financial aid (I know you said that you can dip into your family income, but in this economy, it might be a good idea to have some other options). I think that both Case Western and U Rochester are schools to consider in terms of merit aid.</p>