My first relationship

<p>that's the thing, I might as well be ignoring him, I'm not giving him any hints I like him, he justs has continued this thing.</p>

<p>We've known each other a while, so it's not like some random guy likes me, but still, it's strange to say the least</p>

<p>Remember, this is what he's thinking:</p>

<p>"I dont' want relationship! I just want bang! bang! bang bang bang!"</p>

<p>Seriously, if you're a guy, thats what you think.</p>

<p>well, true. But I don't think that's the issue here.</p>

<p>That's the issue exactly! Learn ninja skills and fight to protect your virgin self!</p>

<p>HWAA!!!</p>

<ol>
<li>You don't know i'm a virgin</li>
<li>I want real advice, not someone telling me to learn ninja skills</li>
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<p>-_-; </p>

<p>You spoil all the fun.</p>

<p>Anyway, he's obviously making his moves on you cause he thinks you're a fine catch. Now, you can choose whether you can accept that kind of carnal relationship, or whether you want something deeper than that. He's using his previous relationship as an excuse, and his random outbursts are what his methods of flattering you into submission. It's kinda like that one show offy guy from Disney Beauty and the Beast movie. </p>

<p>In the end, its up to you to decide what you want.
But share the stories, they make my day. :)</p>

<p>Sure I'm flatterred, but I don't do submissive ever. </p>

<p>What do you mean by using his previous relationships as an excuse?</p>

<p>I'll keep them coming :):)</p>

<p>Hmm...</p>

<p>First of all, do you think he could be attracted to you? Even if you don't think you're hot, he still be attracted. Usually the really popular guys go out with the sluttiest girls, but he might be a little different. Is he known to tease/humiliate people, or is he generally known as a nice guy? </p>

<p>If he's not known as some kind of cruel dude, I think he likes you. He's trying to get you to warm up to him. Instead of being passive, try being more aggressive and maybe jokingly insulting him back a few times. You know better than anybody what's going on. But if you've liked this guy for a long time, you definitely need to warm up to him and see what happens.</p>

<p>he doesn't go out with slutty girls, but they're aren't many in my school, and they're not really liked anyways. I think there's a small chance he could be attracted to me, and he's definetely not a cruel guy. He's always been extremely nice to me and everyone else.</p>

<p>I think it's best that you decide, since you know him the best. If he's truly not the person that would play mean jokes on people, hey, maybe he likes you. Good luck.</p>

<p>I'm trying to decide. I know he's not malicous or mean at all. Through my own experiences along with those of others. But maybe he thinks it's just fun and I'm thinking it out too much. But then again, some of this stuff isn't stuff you would tell a friend.</p>

<p>Today 08:05 PM
celebrian25 1. You don't know i'm a virgin </p>

<p>So you're not a virgin....? Sorry I couldn't resist.</p>

<p>your first taste of love so bittersweet. green on the vine. like strawberry wine.*</p>

<p>*does not apply if "1." means what I think</p>

<p>I didn't say that either. Maybe I am maybe I'm not. It's unimportant. So I tell you not.</p>

<p>maybe he saw that mandy moore movie and wants to be like that guy</p>

<p>So many double negatives. So whats it like living in Ohio? Boring?</p>

<p>Which Mandy Moore movie? A walk to Remember? I hate that damn movie.</p>

<p>ya thats the one.....i dont like it either</p>

<p>celebrian, this is a very tricky issue. he could very well just be interested in you and not know how to get your attention, but beware! all my guy friends are the 'hot' guys in school, and they sometimes jokingly flirt with girls who they have no interest in, just to sort of toy with their emotions i guess or something. it gives them an ego boost to know they can do/say whatever to these girls and theyre so clueless and just like starstruck in a way they go along with it. its pretty lame, and im always telling them to stop but whatever theyre guys. </p>

<p>hopefully this guy is for real, and you guys have a lovely relationship. good luck!</p>

<p>but, seriously, it sounds like one of those movies where the popular (so you say) guy makes a bet that he can "convert" the weird chick. this reminds me of a story from this summer. i was at medical camp with this girl from my school who is rather hot and usually gets what she wants (hint, hint ;)). there was this one guy at camp who seemed like he thought he was the biggest P.I.M.P. so I wanted to bring him down (good-natured, of course :)) so, to make a long story short i bet this girl that she couldn't get him to sit with her for the entire bus ride and at the place we were going. she accepted, and got him to sit with her, lay on her lap, and even to tell her that "of all the girls, I would want to go out with you". seeing that my chance of winning was gone, i paid up the money and, as soon as she saw that i had acknowledged that she had 'conquered' him, she quit the act and (gently?) told him to get off of her lap and that she wanted to sit alone. </p>

<p>guys just don't come out of nowhere and ask you out (and have their friends play along) be suspicious of everything, us guys are mischievous devils :cool:</p>