<p>that movie is so cheesy.... a typical chick flick.</p>
<p>It was on tonight on the WB.</p>
<p>I'm not weird, just not well known. I'm the quiet, smart shy girl. We haven't had more than 2 classes together since 8th grade, and this came up because our seats were changed so he sat behind me. No one hates me, I'm rather well-liked among all groups. Which makes it hard. Is he just "playing me"? His friends aren't playing along, I would say. A lot of times they aren't even paying attention to us. Nothing is blatantly obvious. Which is why I don't know how he really feels. He has never been anything but 100% nice to me.</p>
<p>i have an idea: if you want to go out with him say yes, if you don't, say no. then you'll know if he's playing you or not. and, even if he is, you can just say that you were trying to see what he would do if you said yes. easy as pie. do it. now.</p>
<p>No. I could then potentially look like a complete idiot for everyone in the school. I would be mortified. Until I get a clear signal, I will not say yes or no.</p>
<p>just dont let yourself get carried away or its a recipe for hurt.</p>
<p>it just sounds very fishy to me. he's not talking to you, just jokingly singing to you and stuff. ive seen this before, yes to the "quiet smart girl" and everyone usually knows he's kidding except for her.</p>
<p>well problem with that is he knows i'm not quiet. He is talking to me, but because I don't see him often (he doesn't sit by me in ap bio) and we're not really allowed to talk in precalc we haven't had any really long conversations. We do talk about some stuff though, like how hard that AP bio test was, why I'm not seeing Elf and why my fingers are slightly crooked</p>
<p>well it sounds positive. just be confident. when someone wants you, you know. i guess you're just underestimating yourself.</p>
<p>I'm not trying to convince myself something is there when it isn't. It's hard because he knows i'm quite talkative, but I take a while to get out of my shell. I'm afraid he's just toying with my emotions, not because his actions show it, but because I don't want to be hurt neither do I want to wait forever to make 100% sure he likes me to find out he's not interested anymore because I waited too long</p>
<p>he doesn't like you!</p>
<p>(i don't like you either! don't insult us. you just watch yourself. we're
wanted men. i have the death sentence in twelve systems!)</p>
<p>but really, i don't think he likes you. if he did, he wouldn't outright say "i love you" or sing to you with his friends. it sounds like he's joking around to see if you fall for it. so i say ignore anything stupid he does. and if he really likes you, he'll tell you in a normal way.</p>
<p>okay, that's the overal concensus, I'll just forget it. Living with cats isn't so bad :)</p>
<p>I think you guys need to drop more hints... maybe he's just awkward? There's still a chance</p>
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<p>Oh, sorry, I forgot some people actually care what other high school students think of them...</p>
<p>I'd call him.</p>
<p>I know this would be hard, if you're as shy as you say you are, but I think you really need to do that. I'd make sure he's alone (doesn't have friends over or anything), and just say something like "We've been friends for a while, but you're acting really weird, and I don't know what to make of it." Maybe he'll say he's just goofing around, or maybe he'll say he was serious. Either way, without his friends around, he should be honest. Good luck!</p>
<p>I completely agree with just<em>forget</em>me although, personally, I'd do it in person. Phone calls with that type of stuff are wierd for me.</p>
<p>Honestly, if you're so insecure about it right now, if you actually were to go out with him, it probably wouldn't work out. You'd always be thinking "there's 100 other girls who are prettier...why me? why me?"</p>
<p>it's not that I care so much about what others think, but I do have to spend another year with these people. I just can't be screw you all, I don't care what you think. I'd prefer a phone call. Thanks for all of the suggestions.</p>
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so you're saying that you don't have any friends that wouldn't care if you made a fool of yourself? seriously, get over what other people think about you. you'll have a lot more fun that way and your true friends will still like you weirdness and all.</p>
<p>and i agree with zantedeschia, if you're this worried about a few words in a class, what will you be like if you end up going out and see him talking to another <em>prettier/cooler</em> girl?</p>
<p>I wouldn't really care if he talked with someone cooler/prettier. Most people are. I'm not the type of person who gets jealous or anything like that. He has plenty of friends who are cooler/prettier than me, and I would expect them to talk. And I'm not insecure, what makes you say that? And of course I have friends, but only 6. So I would like to at least have them tolerate my existence through my junior and senior years. Or I'll be shunned by the other 399 people in my class.</p>