<p>i think he likes you, just make a move don't be passive</p>
<p>Two possibilities:
1) Jokingly say yes if he asks, so that he can't be sure if you're serious either. Then if he does like you you're set, and if he doesn't you can pretend it was just a joke since he was clearly joking.
2) Ask him to stop teasing you. Or be like is this a joke? Because if it is it isn't funny... (that way if he's poking fun at you, you at least get in a semi-insult) If he wasn't teasing you he'll be confused and maybe play along... either way it should be fairly clear if it's just a joke. It sounds like maybe he is interested, but blurting out "I love you" means that he is either a very odd guy or just joking. A lot of effort for a joke though, no?
I think a phone call would be VERY awkward.
Hope it all works out!</p>
<p>me last bit of advice: stop turning it over in your head so much, you'll just build it up and then get nervous when you see him and tonguetied and you wont have anything to say. just chill and go with the flow. good luck!</p>
<p>I guess I think things too much...I'm overanalyzing this situation I guess. He's kind of a goofy guy, but I'll try your suggestions marlgirl.</p>
<p>So, any updates?</p>
<p>ahhh someone rembered. Perhaps Friday. I've gotta run and I work tomorrow</p>
<p>I thought I would share this as I thought it was somewhat funny and went along with the thread... guys are an interesting species!</p>
<p>Today I was at college(note I'm 16, most kids in this class are ~20yrs) and I was walking to my car with this guy and as we separated to go to each of our cars(we park next to eachother, not by choice) he screams, "hey wanna go to go out with me tonight?" I said, "No, I've go to go somewhere today." he says, "please!(sarcastically not pleading, more like "puleeese") You know you sat by me the first day because you thought I was hot and you know that you have no where to go right now... stop making excuses!"</p>
<p>Now, I laughed it off and got in my car. I'll admit, I sat by the kid because he was hot. When you walk into a room and have a choice of seats of course I'm going to sit by a hot guy and not some freak. I talk to him before/after class and we've done a project together but I don't want anything more out of it. </p>
<p>To top it off he called my house and my father answered... note that I don't give out my home number to anyone because my parents are slightly overprotective when it comes to the opposite sex. He had my cell number from this project, but I don't know how he got my home number(unlisted)... anyways, I like the guy, he's fun to talk to and hang out with but I don't want to lead him on thinking that its going to go any further. He's 20 and I'm 16(he doesn't know this just that I am a HS senior).</p>
<p>aahhhh, the joys of life.</p>
<p>Good luck celebrian25</p>
<p>4 years older isn't that bad. I have friends that have gone 8 years. Even 15 years older. And I'm not kidding.</p>
<p>"I'm overanalyzing this situation I guess."</p>
<p>(chuckles)</p>
<p>As a fellow human girl, I commit to those actions frequently.</p>
<p>Good luck to you Celebrian!</p>
<p>I agree 4 years isn't that much but my dear parents would FREAK... I went out with a senior when I was a sophomore and that was enough of an ordeal when they found out. </p>
<p>We have a project to do together before the semester and it's not like I'm ashamed or bashful... I've already told him that he's too old and that we'll just keep it casual to avoid conflict.</p>
<p>Sorry for thread hijacking, good luck!</p>
<p>Yeah, it seems like every freshman/sophomore girl has a thing with a senior guy at some point, at least at my school. It's just weird getting to that point where guys your own age start getting on little freshmen girls.</p>
<p>Yep... I'm a freshmen and I kinda had a senior act similarly to me. I had 1 class with him (I got a 99, he got a pretty bad grade so he dropped out) He's cool and says we'll get married and actually comes back to visit me every day during the class he dropped out of. (and i'm still taking of course) He actually scratches on the window and tries to open the door and our tiny little teacher grabs him by the ear and takes him out and he says "I have to see my friend!!!!!" Fun. Don't think the kid is serious though. He's a foot shorter than me so I can beat him up and all. If I were you I'd just say yes right away and have fun with it. Sounds like good fun to me.</p>
<p>A FOOT shorter? How tall are you? Or how short is he?</p>
<p>Don't be sure you can beat him up, though. I've heard of midgets beating up bouncers at clubs. Those little arms move lightning fast.</p>
<p>Yeah, I bet he's scrappy.</p>
<p>Ankle biters are the worst.</p>
<p>Okay, well I'm actually having conversations with this guy now. We kind of have this ongoing joke because I never tell anyone my gpa/rank, and he asked me one day, so we kind of keep the joke going. Even in 8th grade, he's been my only crush I'm actually confident talking to. Today, me and his friend Ryan and him had a deep conversatioin about what happens to us after we die. We also talked about what we want to do in college, where we want to go, what I do on Satuarday nights, where I work and what I do, where I live (No, not the exact location, I live far from my school, so many people wonder why) and their schemes to get rich. It was really nice, like we were friends. His friends are all very nice to me (I'm pretty much surrounded by him and his friends), but not in a "let's trick her way", but just normal conversations. Sometimes he's more flirtatious, sometimes more like today. I enjoy both, and I would like to be "just his friend" and wouldn't mind not be anything more (though that's okay too :p) On days he's more flirtatious, he might put his hand on my shoulder, or touch my back. Today he leaned forward on his desk and just looked at me for a moment or two. And he'll talk to me sometimes in bio (we usually talk in precalc). It's now been a week and a half, which makes me think he just isn't fooling around with my emotions. I love to go to precalc because he makes me laugh so much, and I feel accepted by him and his friends, not like some stranger in a strange land. So I'm not sure where things are going, but I'm going to be okay with that and not see things that aren't there, but make sure I see the things that are. I'll update soon, see if anything else happens! :p</p>
<p>B u m p who do we appreciate</p>
<p>It's good to hear that you weren't completely humiliated! </p>
<p>Most of my friends are guys because I tend to get along with them better. My best friend is a guy- an abercrombie model(truthfully, not being sarcastic)- and we are always going to the movies, shopping, etc and people who don't know us think we go out. I always hear rumors of "Ewww... why her?!!?" It's not like I'm a hermit or a beast, just not the stereotypical perky cheerleader that you would expect to see him with. I went to prom with him last year and that fueled the rumors but we both decided that we didn't want the pressures associated with going with a date at the afterparties and such.<br>
... hey, whatever works.</p>
<p>Good luck.</p>
<p>it sounds positive to me. i think he liiiiiiiiikes you. haha. maybe he and all his friends had a talk about how they think you're hot and cool blablabla and now theyre all paying attention to you. becuase high school boys make decisions like that aall together. its weird. but good. yay for you.</p>
<p>yes, strange boy ways. hahahaha. :p</p>