<p>I'm sorry. I don't wanna sound all banal, but you will find somebody who appreciates you.</p>
<p>oh gosh I am so stupid</p>
<p>Edit: He told me to shut up, not that he didn't like me!</p>
<p>Edit: he wasn't cursing at me, but at math!</p>
<p>Sorry, that might change the meaning of the story a bit :)</p>
<p>Hrm. I don't know how to make heads or tails out of this.</p>
<p>That does indeed change the situation, dontcha think? I really think he likes you. I tend to act goofy (although I'm by no means popular, but people do know me) when I like a girl.. adamantly deny that I like her...</p>
<p>All the stuff you've described. :)</p>
<p>Wow, I thought I would now have assurance he for sure DOESN"T like me. hmmmm. Well, maybe the chronicles aren't quite finnished yet. We'll see what tomorrow brings. I mean, I desperately want him to like me, but it's I don't want to get my hopes up situation.</p>
<p>You need to gradually let it slide into a relationship. If you want, I mean.</p>
<p>Even if he doesn't like you right now, let him know the best side of you.. the side you want him to fall in love with (okay, big word here, but you get my point)..</p>
<p>I mean, a relationship's not going to happen unless SOMEONE makes the first move. It almost didn't for my current girlfriend (who I happen to adore), but I always made the first move in that case..</p>
<p>I see what you're saying, I guess I'm afraid of making the first move, and it not ending how I would want it to. I guess I'll be more assertive though without like just asking him if he's into me. I could see showing him the best side of me. I feel hopeful again :). I can't believe it took 102 posts for the best advice of all.</p>
<p>Coming from a guy's perspective, he either is very interested in you, or knows you "like" him- since you've ruled out the second possibility, I would say the first is true. I doubt he would talk to you if he didn't like you. Good luck, and enjoy high school!</p>
<p>I think he might know I like him, but not because anyone told him. I'm at the point where I know he's not being mean, saying what guy would spend 2 weeks talking and flirting with someone as a cruel joke. Thanks for the guy perspective, it really helps :) I really do hope he is interested in me (wow, am I actually excited for school for once in my life)</p>
<p>-another "goofy" thing he does is he comes in before I do to class sometimes so he'll be moving my desk so I can't sit down, or he'll sing a song and be tapping my back</p>
<p>geez I just don't understand boys :)</p>
<p>We hardly understand ourselves. And women are harder.</p>
<p>I prefer the blunt approach- just tell me want you want, none of this going around the tree instead of through it stuff</p>
<p>Welcome to life. Sometimes you have to beat around the bush.</p>
<p>Isn't it exactly the opposite?</p>
<p>For all our idiosyncrasies, girls are still far crazier than guys.</p>
<p>Lol there is a poster in the math teachers lounge that says</p>
<p>GIRLS MIND BOYS MIND
(pic. of tons of elec. switches) (pic. of one switch)</p>
<p>that didnt work did it? .. </p>
<p>dont mind me.</p>
<p>Naw, I got it! But you know how it is, science/math jokes are never that funny, especially ones that you can find in a teachers lounge.</p>
<p>At least you mutually like each other, i have a few girls that stalk me at school(seriously they tell their friends fantasies about me) and I do not really like either one. Then my best friend who I want a relationship with instead of just friends w/ benefits does not want to go through with it. My situation sucks.</p>
<p>I thought it was funny to see a thread of 6 pages about someones first relationship.... Nevertheless, im glad to see that he isnt joking, but he seems immature.</p>
<p>ryan, you think your situation sucks? that makes me laugh. it can get much worse. so if you think your current situation sucks, i can only imagine how much pain you'll feel one day when you see just how bad it can get. </p>
<p>sorry for being insensitive, but it's not like you're the nicest person in the world.</p>
<p>Wait, celebrian, you're upset that he's "beating around the bush"... while at the same time you won't initiate a serious conversation outside of school. He's not going to be clear and direct when you're goofing around in bio class, but if you get him in the right situation, he will be.</p>