<p>Whoa this is an odd thread. Anyway, I have two opinions. I tease some boys at school, not in a sexy way. But I'll sit next to them and start talking to them and playing with their hair. Not really in a way that I want to humiliate them or anything, pretty much just because they'll let me. I think its a behavior of a person who is somewhat obsessed with getting attention. Maybe he likes the fact that you show some interest. </p>
<p>Not saying that this is him but maybe. Just blow him off, he'll react to it.</p>
<p>"ryan, you think your situation sucks? that makes me laugh. it can get much worse. so if you think your current situation sucks, i can only imagine how much pain you'll feel one day when you see just how bad it can get. </p>
<p>sorry for being insensitive, but it's not like you're the nicest person in the world."</p>
<p>You do not know the extent of the family problems that I have in my life. I will tell you that they are as bad if not worse than your sister's situation. For that reason I think you should suck it up and stop being a cry baby for my response to a thread that is on page 2. Nobody cares about your problems, and nobody cares about my problems so insensitive behavior is what you should expect when you post an idiotic personal story. </p>
<p>Anyway sorry to everyone else who does not know what i am talking about, if you must know go back to the second page and read the thread about CK's sister and the plea for sympathy exhibited by him.</p>
<p>Okay, I just can't figure this one out. Things you take for granted I don't, because I just don't assume these things. Your right about me needing to be more direct, it's just a matter of me finding the courage to do so. It's hard to initiate something when you know it could go either way. I'm really trying hard to make it more than a mutual know each other thing. I wish I could say I don't care if he likes me or not, but now feelings are involved with a guy I thought would never notice me much. It's the little things he does I guess, like ask about my life, ask how I'm doing, and it's a definite approval of my existence, which is weird because I've become accustomed to being ignored. It's not like he acts this way around everyone, yes he is really social, but he's been paying special attention to me, where he knows and I know it's directed towards me. Yes, he's a bit on the immature side, but most guys are. But this waiting game is too much, tomorrow I am giving up this passive stuff and going assertive! Hopefully this thread can finally end then!</p>
<p>I agree that most guys are immature, but I am also a believer that a woman shouldnt settle for that. But if that is what turns you on then;well... just make sure he has protection.</p>
<p>were not talking about the guy I'm going to marry here, and he's not super immature, just reg. guy immature. And no I don't get turned on by immaturity...that was a stupid thing to say</p>
<p>I feel like I'm writing in a diary for college-obsessed students, oh wait, that is what I'm doing :p. I enjoy sharing my life with all of you- it's pretty cool to see 20 different perspectives on a seemingly simple situation</p>
<p>Okie so here's today's daily update :p Well, I walk into class today and he's like Hi, and then he starts chanting my name. This is a few minutes before class starts, and a few others join in. Then he pokes my back (he sits behind me), and I'm like Ow that hurts (okay it didn't really hurt, that just my reaction to everything) so he does it again. His friend, (not previously mentioned) tell him to stop flirting with me, which he responds with shut up. So class starts and we do math stuff, and when we have time to do our homework, he starts conversing with me, mostly about bio, and a little about my lack of driving experience. His friend (previously mentioned in earlier post) is like, tell my your bio/pre-calc grade, which I tell him no, and he responds that the guy I like will tell me his grade, and I tell him I don't care what his grade is, which he then insists I do care. I talk a little with his friends (those mentioned in this post). I feel like I'm forgetting something, hmmm well I'lll add more later if I remember.</p>
<p>Thanks for the update Celebrian. I really do think he's into you.</p>
<p>I think you should make the move, as in maybe invite him to do something with you or something. Or at least him alone in school so you can ask him if he's into you because you like him or if he is not and is actually just playing with you than it will be easier for you not to like him cause you won't think of him as so nice anymore.</p>
<p>Say, "I want to know. Do you like me? Because I'm kind of starting to like you, and if you don't and are just playing with me than it sure will be easy to not like you anymore."</p>
<p>Of course, it is easier typed than said. Also, if that doesn't feel right, don't do it. Maybe just going with the flow is better. Then again, he might give up if you never make a move. MAybe not. Maybe I have no clue about anything!</p>
<p>Do what feels right for you I guess. But keep posting for us, it is entertaining. It's kind of like a tv show you've been suck into, and now I don't want to miss the episode. Anyway, good luck with it all Celebrian. I think it sounds like he really does like you!</p>
<p>haha I know, it's like reading a soap opera. I know we started talking a little about our grades (I prefer for no one to know, high expectations=bad), oh it just came to me! He asked me what my favorite song was, which turned into his friend singing Stacey's mom (that's my name). And the guy I liked then joked he heard my mom was pretty hot. Before, I liked him like how you like a movie star, you like them, but you know it's not even possible, but now it feels real. I guess I'm nervous about "making the first move" regardless of the outcome. I think I'll wait till tomorrow and see if anything happens, if nothing big happens, I'll be assertive, no matter how much it kills me</p>
<p>no offense Leonesa, but I wouldn't dare be that direct. it might be better to be casual and not make a big deal about it. if you ask him to hang out, say it offhand, like it would be fun but not that big of a deal. and my advice is: go for it! i asked my now-bf to hang out first and it just got stuff rolling. good luck celebrian!</p>
<p>Ahaha celebrian, this sounds a whole lot like what I'm going through right now. Except the guy doesn't go to my school, so it's not quite as easy. But he acts immature in a really cute way and when we do see each other, we flirt a lot, but neither of us have made a move yet. I wouldn't normally make the first move, but if he doesn't soon, then I will!</p>
<p>im sooo rooting for you, but i just remembered something. in my chem class all the senior guys sit in the back, and theres this junior girl whos soooo sweet but not gorgeous and not like very popular w the guys but the seniors all love playing around with her (not in a mean way) and theyre not really interested. like they whisper her name and pull on her chair and its just become like a game, and she thinks they have crushes on her, but poor thing, she's wrong. they sort of do it becuase they know she'll let them and they dont think shell take it seriously. so this is just to give you a little insight, hopefully its not the same case for you.</p>
<p>that's what I think. He hasn't given me any real reason to think that, but I really don't want to get hurt. Maybe I like feeling accepted- really feeling like part of something. It's nice to talk to his friends, it's nice to feel like you belong somewhere. I really like him, but I haven't had a chance to be assertive- I was sick thursday and friday we took a quiz over logarithims- let's say it wouldn't qualify as easy or short. Monday, I'll talk to him- my heart just can't take it anymore.</p>
<p>well take a risk anyways and see where it takes you. ask him casually what he's doing over the weekend and see how he responds. if he looks uneasy then make a joke about what you're doing so it seems as if you werent looking for a date, but you never know... he might invite you along. haha, im so invested in this relationship of yours. i hope it works out.</p>
<p>hehe I feel like were one person...you command me and I do it! I'm going for it- I'm not going to hold anything back. I feel like I'm going to explode some days, like if I don't know NOW, I am literally going to break into peices.</p>