my friend plays tennis with his teacher in his spare time...

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But the kid is calling him...and meeting up with a teacher outside of school for social occasions alone</p>

<p>the teacher is a fool</p>

<p>what I have read from other teachers, is that they would never do such a thing on a consistent basis and alone with the student, never

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how else are you supposed to get a good rec unless the teacher doesn't know you very well? Also, how is what the teacher doing illegal? Have you heard any stories of teachers getting arrested because they play sports/tennis with their students? no...</p>

<p>seems to me you don't want other people to get to know their teacher's better, so you can get "citygirl" into a better college</p>