<p>My girlfriend of two months today, is a great girl. And i trust her very much, we went throught some troubles, about this, but i learnt how to trust her. But there is a guy that keeps emailing her, and he lives in another country, on another continent. In his emails, he talks about how he misses her and loves her, and talks about dreams he has about cuddling and kiss her and falling asleep with her. He also has a girlfriend of 1 year and i dont know why he emails her like this, its almost as if he is obsessed. Now, i dont want to make a big thing about this, one because he is in another country, and two because i trust her and believe she would never do anything and i know she cares towards me. When she replys to the emails she doesnt ever say she loves him or anything like that, she just says, that she misses him also, and that one day they will meet again. Its not that im scared that something will happen, its the emails some what bother me, and she never told me about him, althought she told me about many other boyfriends. I dont know if i should tell her about this, because i had read her email, this is because i went to change a "msn group" we have and put that i miss her in it, and the today screen showed me the email. What should i do?</p>
<p>If you REALLY trust her then keep dating her. I was in the same situation except I wasn’t technically dating her. Deep down I knew I didn’t trust her becuase of things in her past. She said it was nothing but I found out she was lying. So, if you REALLY trust her, then date her. Otherwise, don’t.</p>
<p>No no, i understand what you’re saying, but its not really a trust issue. It’s more i dont know if i should ask her about it or anything, because i dont wanna make it a big thing, and plus it was in her emails so i dont wanna really invade her privacy. So should i say anything, or leave it alone?</p>
<p>you can ask her but then again, you might be wondering why you casually read the email to begin with. I don’t think it’s a big deal. If you’re happy with the way things are going, why the need to bring it up? I’m sure she’s just going to say then are just friends. So, the boy’s weird, who cares. HE LIVES IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. Lol.</p>
<p>What the hell. At one point I imagine this section of CC was actually pretty helpful. It’s not even that intelligent, I mean, we can always tell when brand new people show up and suddenly ask questions about intimate details of their lives.</p>
<p>And, if by some stretch you are completely serious, then make your own decisions. It’s your relationship, go with your gut feeling, not what some random person on the internet tells you.</p>
<p>I personally think it’s weird. She knows that he “loves” her, she has a boyfriend (you), yet she is continuing to encourage him by replying and saying stuff about how she “misses him” and how they will “see each other someday.”</p>
<p>Do what you want, but the whole situation seems sketchy.</p>
<p>look, this is dumb. wth she says she misses him too and one day they will meet again? you have only been going out for 2 months. if my boyfriend was doing that I would break up with him. point blank she is playing with your head.</p>
<p>this is funny lol. this for me was for real. but i knew what i had to do from the beginning, was to leave it alone, its her privacy and her friends i trust her and idc who she talks to. i wanted to see the variety of answers i would get – one person telling me to dump her the other telling me to leave it alone, the other telling me the situation is sketchy no offence to anyone but its funny </p>
<p>p.s: breaking up is taking it wayyyyyyy too seriously. so whoever said that you’re wrong </p>
<p>anyways funny experiment i always see it on the internet and wanted to see what people would say to my situation when i already know the right answer btw lantzk, i agree with you 100% lol</p>
<p>why does she email back? he sounds like a creeper. the moment some weird kid says they have a dream about me i completely shut down and totally avoid them. emailing back sounds stupid. you sure you want to go out with her? ok. maybe that was mean. but seriously. do what you think is right.</p>
no offence to anyone but its funny 
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