My Girlfriend wants to take another guy to prom

<p>Wow dude, just ask her at the same time if you can hang out with a girl on the same night. She wouldn't you feeling left alone, would she?... </p>

<p>Sounds like she doesn't care about you. AND if she has the reputation as a "secret whore", I suggest you ask her point blank if she likes this Gregory person, or if she cares more about some lame over-hyped dance and image than you. If the answer is yes, ditch her.</p>

<p>^^
What Jaka said. Exactly.</p>

<p>If you really care about her (which the length of your relationship suggests) I would try being more diplomatic. Immediately dumping her won't help the two of you stay together.</p>

<p>She said "ya."</p>

<p>ya to what? that it wasnt a good idea?</p>

<p>Prom is overrated seriously.</p>

<p>I wanted to really destroy you in this thread, but I will just say this the problem lies in , and what is the GPA requirement(or the BS excuse)?
edit: if you want me to go into detailed critiscm you can ask me to, but I'd rather not from your recent posts</p>

<p>Girl: Well...?
WishWash: No
Girl: um is greg aware?
WishWash: no not yet
Girl: ya</p>

<p>I don't get it</p>

<p>quadonfait, I posted a thread a long time ago abot the GPA requirement for the prom in my school. It's 3.5 academic unweighted. (about 29% of the class)
Since then a lot of people have been working the system so that they can go, but not me. It's essentially an "honors dance."</p>

<p>Please go into detailed criticism.</p>

<p>ThisCouldBeHeavn - Yeah... I feel like something's... missing...</p>

<p>quandonfait, chill. youre just making yourself look bad.</p>

<p>You should really talk to her about it and tell her what you feel and just...discuss it.</p>

<p>I mean, I know it seems like she really cares about her image and blah blah but if you guys made it 3 years (that's a LONG time) and havent really had any problems..you shouldn't dump her or anything drastic like that. You guys just need to work it out. And hey, the senior prom (I'm assuming you're a senior?) is a big deal to a lot of girls (me included) and it's kinda hard to understand I guess..I don't exactly know the reason why it's such a big deal to me..it's just all part of that "high school experience" to go to your senior prom. I know quite a few people who just end up going with their really good guy friend because it's senior year and moments like this where all your friends are there (well, most of them I guess) is going to be really rare after graduation.</p>

<p>So just try to work it out!
I can see where both of you guys are coming from though.</p>

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Assuming that a school is not very strong in Academics, then 29% is very easy to make into, since most people are not collegebound or are not as collegebound as people visiting this site(top schools/top programs). Knowing your the rumours about your girlfriend, you should be treating her differently, and be open-minded towards the relationship(possibly extract the profits ;))</p>

<p>^ jw, are you drunk? what are you even saying? plus, how is someone not as collegebound? youre either going to college or youre not, theres no half way.</p>

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somebody who is more collegebound is likely to end up at better than state university or some 40k a year LAC that is very hard to classify better than a State University(most people in here are bound for top schools, so how not reacing 3.5 GPA in an average HS is possible(even if not caring))?</p>

<p>Uh, quadonfait, I work my ASS off to get a 3.02. Plus, im all out AP.</p>

<p>Don't just assume that people with under 3.5's aren't trying. Hasty Generalization.</p>

<p>3.5s arent as easy as they seem, if you actually take challenging courses and dont just settle for easy As</p>

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In most circumstances I would disagree. I am taking the most challenging courseload available(2 ap classes last year 3 this year, and 3-4 next year)
and i have a gpa over 3.75+(wont tell you the exact gpa, but you get the point, and my school is UW in gpa and a-=3.7, which makes everything alot harder) If i only did my work and never took the initiative to chase teachers for extra credit/points and make them give me other things I would still end up with a 3.75. Granted I take on average less than 30 minutes a day with homework. I procrastinate a lot, and yet I never stayed up after midnight yet.) I can that I am ranked in top 10% of my class and the school is the strongest in the city of 200,000. For the OP, there are two excepctions, grade deflation and Magnet schools where getting high gpa might be hard. And I am not advocate of getting good GPA dilligence or hardwork or anything like that, b test scores show a lot more about how well one knows things and will be able to suceed.</p>

<p>^ what is this, turning into a chance thread?
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b test scores show a lot more about how well one knows things and will be able to suceed.

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no offense but, you're an idiot. tests don't say crap about intelligence or even what someone "knows."
anyways, the poor guy's love life is at stake here! I'm sure his parents have lectured him about grades enough already.</p>

<p>well I think before you give her a definite yes or no or even talk to Gregory, you should tell her how it makes you feel..... yes i said it, TALK about your FEELINGS! then you'll be able to work something out. If she's completely inconsiderate, well then do something else that night to occupy yourself. OOH or crash the dance!! that could be fun, and you could surprise her. haha</p>

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Granted I take on average less than 30 minutes a day with homework.

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<p>And you said MY school was easy? I typically have 5-8 hours every night.. If I do all the readings.</p>