[QUOTE So what? That’s not love. These aren’t loving actions. Like many other immigrants, yourself included, they are completely unaware of the fact that there are plenty of prestigious and excellent places beyond HYPSM. Loving people don’t push their children towards career paths that don’t interest them.]
Are you coming from a family, that was one step away from famine, but managed to come to USA, learned English, got job, made tons of sacrifices, but raised their children with the right values? How do YOU know what love is? You admit that you are not helping your parents financially, and you don’t expect that your kids would ever help you. IS this love?
How could you judge other families?