<p>I’m so sorry to hear this: living in a society so separated from your parent’s beliefs is difficult, I’m sure. Have you read the Namesake? It is a good book in the way that it contemplates the differences between a father and son. It is set in an Indian family, but I think it is a cross-cultural reference more than anything.</p>
<p>In Western society, and most of CC, one would tell you to “follow your heart”. In Pakistani society, one would say to “follow tradition” and social rule. My interpretation would be to do what rings honest to you, and it might not necessarily be your favorite option. What is good isn’t always what is easy.</p>