Philly is a big city. San Francisco isn’t particularly warm.
You need to do the work to find other schools you can be accepted to with the tuition exchange (and there may be a couple different programs your father is eligible for, as there is one just for Jesuit schools, one for many more private schools, sometimes a program for the schools in a state).
What majors are you interested in? It makes no sense to go to USF and major in history when Villanova has history.
It doesn’t sound like you want to go to college at all.