<p>Wait so, were you with them when they were a. Eating alone b. Staying isolated in their rooms & c. going back to their families every holiday?</p>
<p>How do you know exactly what they were doing…unless you were there with them? Haha. Maybe they weren’t eating alone in their rooms - maybe they left after you were chatting up half the caf. Or maybe they were seeing old friends during holidays or planning Vegas runs? </p>
<p>You’re really thinking too much into this. They’re your roomies. Respect their space and their privacy. 
OR, you could try talking to them.</p>
<p>People have different priorities in college. You can’t expect everyone to be uniform. That’s the beauty of college: there are an assortment of people with different likes and personalities.</p>